[topper]

Someone noted it in another post and I thought it would make a good question. Labels suck , but it's not about labels.
Gay and Bi guys kiss and are into each other. Are you in it, just for sexual satisfaction?

[simonthomas13]

When i joined SF my 'label' was curious, but recently i changed it. I wouldn't kiss a guy, hold hands with a guy, get 'passionate' or 'romantic' etc ... i just want to try sexual stuff! I'd love to suck a cock, and even try being fucked by one. But that's all, i changed my 'label' as i started thinking to myself 'I'm not curious about BEING gay, i just want cock'

[Streaker]

I have to agree with simonthomas13. My answer is yes.

[TheKeysGuy]

This seems like a question you could ask 1,000 people and get 1,000 answers. None of them 100% right or 100% wrong. It is a very interpretive question and answer open to many different ways of looking at it. Here is my opinion for what it's worth.

I think that just about every adult in the world has at least thought about performing a sexual act with a member of the same sex. Thinking is just that, "Thinking". I do not consider someone who thinks about having sex with a member of the same sex to be bi or someone who is curious about same sex relations as being bi. I opened the "BiSexual / Bi-Curious" forum and am posting in it right now so obviously I have thought about it but I have never had sex with a man. Assuming you are still reading this you have obviously thought about having sex with a member of the same sex. Doesn't mean you have. In my opinion you become bi when you actually have a sexual relation with a member of the same sex. Not a day goes by that I don't look at a neighbor, friend, co-worker or even a stranger on the street and think about how much I would like to have sex with her but that doesn't mean I've had sex with her.

[BlueDevil]

A couple of months ago an much older guy (he was gay) asked if he could suck my cock so I let him and it felt good, however guys don't turn me on at all nor does the thought of sucking a guys cock. I would never let a guy do something more nor would I do anything to a guy. Perhaps I was curious for the sexual satisfaction.

[Bi Jersey]

I agree labels are dumb but who cares. I struggled with the labels for myself. Saying I was straight when I was experimenting over the course of several years on a handful of occasions. Then saying I was bi but unable to commit to an actual bi relationship beyond friends with benefits again because of the stigma of labels and I didn't know what I wanted because I used to base that on what I thought others would think or expected of me. Really I think it comes down to individuals, everybody is their own person, sexuality is a personal thing as unique as a snowflake.

To me relationships are based on the person. At this point in my life I don't think that I would hook up with another guy but the 2 I did, I cared about and knew a long time, it was friendship that crossed into the sexual side. I don't regret it, it was some amazing love making and sharing that experience with him is something I don't regret. But long term where I am at now, no it's not for me. I like women and want that long term deal. The past is done and the memories of the experience are on the shelf. To each their own.

[Freddie354]

No. I'd say i'm curious sometimes. Given the right situation I'd Kiss/suck/be sucked a guy but I could never actually be with one for something emotional; if I did I know I'd feel like I was missing something. It's more a fetish than an orientation if that makes sense; something I'd enjoy and try out occasionally but something I'd want to be my only option.