SF Reputation social experiment
Posted Thu Mar 29, 2012 03:02 AM
For example is it there pics?, number, quality etc, there posts or threads? the number of friends they have, the "quality" or popularity of the friends, the comments on there profile? there points? or there blogs? or reputation as good at cyber or that they cam a lot or spend a lot of time in the chat rooms, or they just seem friendly...
Posted Thu Mar 29, 2012 05:11 AM
Personally for me it's about the things that a person writes - either on thief profile, through comments and posts, in chat, etc. I like people who are a bit fun and lighthearted, treat others kindly and respectfully. Constant insults and picking at other members, just getting too serious all the time, or an obvious lack of intelligence are the things that make avoid others. Pics are great, and often what will make me look at a person but I wouldn't say that's what I would judge a person on. Some of my fav people on here have little or no pics of themselves.
Posted Thu Mar 29, 2012 05:30 AM
Posted Thu Mar 29, 2012 05:48 AM
Posted Thu Mar 29, 2012 06:44 AM
Posted Thu Mar 29, 2012 07:35 AM
I also respect authenticity to a high degree, and this is something that is very scarce on this site as well. Again, Scotty Wright, but also many of the regulars in chat fit that bill. I think the people I have on my friend list also fall in this category.
As for the ones that I don't respect... Hmm... Where do I start...
Trust me, the list is long and too perilous to admit, but I'll just mention the manipulative types who enjoy using and abusing others. I think they're despicable... Some aren't very good at it and they get spotted very quickly. However, the smarter ones are here to harm others, either intentionally or unintentionally, and it's really too bad that the site doesn't have the tools to spot these individuals before they actually do some damage.
Hmm... Maybe this thread should be moved to the Lounge...
Posted Thu Mar 29, 2012 08:25 AM
By the way, assholes tend to generate a lot of heat and light, at first, but they tend to have short attention spans, folks get bored with them after a while and they move on. The best way to get the goat of a jackass is to ignore him/her.
Posted Thu Mar 29, 2012 09:48 AM
I find reading the posts the most valuable thing in here and the chance to share opinions on subjects not really discussed much elsewhere.
What is also really interesting is how some folks in here can play games with blocking others from their posts etc. I guess what they are really saying is that they are not mature enough to discuss matters intelligently or are afraid of what others may say.
This post has been edited by got2bgood: Thu Mar 29, 2012 09:51 AM
Posted Thu Mar 29, 2012 09:57 AM
Posted Thu Mar 29, 2012 10:34 AM
I agree with you Jade about the forums, blogs and chatting. But I would disagree with you about the photos... your pictures for example are the bread crumb trail that led me to finding out more about you. So I think that that pics do count for something.
Posted Thu Mar 29, 2012 05:30 PM
For me, I have no interest in cyber sex,either watching someone masterbate on cam, talking them through their masturbation, or for that matter displaying myself on cam for them. I get enough of the real thing. Blogs, not my thing either so I dont ever read them.
I like the people that do post in the forums about their sexual experiences and thoughts in a positive way and post photos and videos.
I dislike those who don't that share much of anything, but look how interllectual I am or their negativity and hostility towards others through accusations of this or that, constantly telling people they are wrong to think this or that or engage in whatever sexual practices they want.
For me then it is the photos people post and what they add positively in the forums that matters.
Posted Thu Mar 29, 2012 07:45 PM
I look for those who are "real' , mature , genuine , & comfortable in being who they really are , instead of being a poser .
Those who are able to stand strong without playing mind games , falling in with "cliques" , or creating unnecessary drama (I really hate the D word) .
Those who value the opinions of others as much as their own , instead of bashing them for being different , they dont always have to be "right" at whatever the cost .
Those who build others up instead of tearing them down , making as much of a positive difference as they can .
These people are easy for me to spot-n-tag & I value them greatly >:]
Posted Thu Mar 29, 2012 08:33 PM
Not post whoring
Not Drama queens/kings
No C&P answers or posts
Most important, people who help instead of harm.
Posted Thu Mar 29, 2012 11:06 PM
Posted Thu Mar 29, 2012 11:13 PM
It's exactly the same for me. I am not here to look for pics, nor will I post any pics of myself. I prefer to talk with people that show some intelligence.
Posted Thu Mar 29, 2012 11:26 PM
Posted Fri Mar 30, 2012 01:46 AM
I didn't really say what I kind of look for. Mostly it is someone who says hello back. Lol. I guess I have spent time in all areas of sf. Chat room. Forums. Cybering. Looking at pics. Reading blogs. So. Any one of those things may cause me to notice a person. I like a little bit of intelligence and someone to show an interest. A funny or friendly profile is nice. I like seeing pics. But doesnt bother me if there are none either. Don't really go for people who think they know it all or that are judgmental. Funny. Sexy. Open minded. Hmmmm. Now where do I find that??
Posted Fri Mar 30, 2012 06:29 AM
a big thing for me is knowing that people are interested in what i have to say for reasons other than my boobs and pussy and people who aren't trying to suck up to me all the time. i've made a lot of friends here and those are qualities that are pretty important to getting into my good books
pics are not important to me in the slightest.
Posted Fri Mar 30, 2012 06:40 AM
As to the rest of you.....well if there's no pics of your face & body up goes a red flag, if you follow that with a smart ass "I'm so better educated, older and clever" I dont believe a word you type.
But if your sexy and fun, post pics/vids, chat in the forums then your OK in my book .
The chat rooms, been there they are
You say "slut" like it is a bad thing.....I don't see it that way..its just the person...and what they happen to enjoy..which in this case is cock or whatever...lol...I agree that I think people who post pics and vids add to the site..but i don't rate people less if they don't post pics...unless they are negative towards people.
and saint...I think you are one of the people on here I admire most.....yes I saw you when you had your amazing body out...and your tits and pussy....and yes it turned me on....but now I respect you...and enjoy havign fun with you occasionally....cos you contribute and you think about what you want to say...and that's what makes a good sf'er...oh shit....that sounded sooooo sucky....ok...forget it....