Am I Bisexual? Bisexual
Posted Mon Apr 09, 2012 12:22 AM
So, here is the deal. I'm wondering if I am bi sexual. First off: I'm 22, male.
So, I've only had sex with women in my life. I've had sex with a lot of women. Somewhere around (maybe that's not a lot but i'm only 22!). Lately though I've been enjoying gay porn. Not all the time but every once in a while I'm in the mood for gay porn? I'm a very open minded and very sexual person. I've loved having sex with women and I will continue to have sex with women (because I like it) but I kind of wonder what it means to be bisexual? I don't particularly feel the need to go have sex with a man (yet) but I'm starting to enjoy gay porn for the first time in my life (never really thought about even watching it in the past). Last weekend though I was out at the bar and went home with a friend (not a good friend just someone I knew in high school) and his girlfriend (also someone I knew from highshcool). At the bar we chatted and I caught up with them for the first time in years. Anyways, when it came time to leave my good friend really wanted to take this one chick home so I let him leave. I was drunk and still sitting at the table with these "old friends". After a while they said they were going to leave and that I could certainly come back to there place if I didn't have a ride home. So, I went. When we got there we all just kinda set around in there place for a while and then the two of them started to get into the mood with each other. I was sitting on the same couch with them and the girl was in the middle. She started touching my leg when she was making out with her boyfriend. I got pretty turned on and then they said they were going to go to the bedroom and the guy and girl basically told me I was welcome to join them. I pussied out. I told them I was just gonna go to bed but I really didn't mind the idea of a threesome with another dude just like I'm not minding gay porn lately.
I'm not sure what I am anymore. I'm second guessing my sexuality (which is fine). I love women but I'm also starting to like good looking guys. Does this mean I'm bisexual? I would love to hear from other bi people and if this is how they are?
Posted Mon Apr 09, 2012 05:37 AM
Posted Mon Apr 09, 2012 07:09 AM
Same fantasy looking at a guys croutch when at work, or on, the bus or the street ?
If not it just fantasy, not bi in any real way.
This post has been edited by hott4u: Mon Apr 09, 2012 07:15 AM
Posted Mon Apr 09, 2012 09:43 PM
And as the OTHER earlier poster stated, being bisexual means you are drawn to either sex, and will eagerly and willingly have sex with either man or woman, because both sexes turn you on, and having sex with either a man or a woman is pleasurable and fulfilling for you.
It's easy to find a man attractive, but do you feel an urge to have sex with him? Do you think you'd find that exciting and pleasant?
I've known I was bisexual since 12 or 13 - wow, THAT was a long time ago! I made my first dildo at 14, and spent many nights pushing it into me while masturbating to delightful orgasm. I've always been turned on by men - and women. I'm finding now, at middle age, I'm much more excited and fulfilled (pun intended!) by sex with my boyfriend than I have with any woman I've been with.
Give bi a try! You might suck a cock and discover it's the most fun you've ever had! (Also, semen is delightfully tasty!) You may also get your dick up a tight, willing male ass - or get a big dick up your own - and experience the most intense and satisfying orgasm of your life! Feel free to PM if you have any questions for this bi guy!
Posted Wed Apr 11, 2012 02:44 AM
Posted Tue May 01, 2012 12:49 PM
Posted Sat Jul 07, 2012 05:21 PM
I identify as bisexual, because I have loved women and men. However I've only had sex with women.
The "scale" is not limited to gay, lesbian, or bi. Nor based on what gender you've had sex with.
I dont particularly like "gay" porn, but I like watching the men in "straight" porn.
Don't get me wrong, I can't wait to swallow my first load of spunk "from the hose".
This post has been edited by dragonlove75: Sat Jul 07, 2012 05:26 PM
Posted Sun Jul 08, 2012 01:17 PM
Posted Wed Jul 18, 2012 07:38 AM
Because sometimes it's important to us to be able to define who we are to ourselves. It also makes it easier for us to understand other people if we have a label for who and what they are. I'm not saying that it's good or bad. I think that once we figure out what label we want to apply to ourselves, it's a lot easier to deal with. The struggle to figure out what label we want is a different story entirely, though.
Posted Sat Jul 21, 2012 02:32 PM
Posted Sat Jul 21, 2012 06:28 PM
Let me tell you exactly what you are bro .................
You are you , the only you this world has , so as you you are exactly what you are & that is the only thing your meant to be & that is you !
I loathe labeling ppl , so free yourself from those chains & explore/enjoy your life however you want without those unnecessary limitations >:]
Posted Wed Aug 01, 2012 06:25 AM
Posted Wed Aug 08, 2012 05:21 PM
I would call you bi-curious too.for now,
cos I've never heard of fantasies that shrink.Always known
and believed that fantasies grow by time.
Posted Fri May 03, 2013 02:11 PM
Posted Wed May 22, 2013 09:04 AM