She recently met someone (cool), and it appears that there is a mutual liking going on there. It doesn't matter too much because if asked I would agree to her having sex with him (kinda, some conditions apply).
That's not where I have a problem, see I met this guy for all of maybe a half hour. Not very long at all, but we had a good conversation talked about cars, games, and various other stuffs. Next thing I know he's comparing himself to me by saying
That got me thinking, how in 30 minutes of decent conversation did he deduce that I am a douche bag? Obviously she has talked with him far more than I have, so it appears that information came from her. It's kind of a deal breaker to find out my wife is calling me a douche bag (or describing me as such) to people, perhaps as justification to cheat.
It's one thing to cheat on someone, it's a completely other to lie about them to strangers to justify it for yourself. What would you do in my situation (any and all advice welcomed).