Posted Mon Oct 01, 2007 01:47 PM
I don't know if I can really say that I'm a bisexual, I've dated three girls.. and done nothing more than kiss them...
So I'm curious about actually experimenting with a girl...
and I have tons of friends that are bisexual...
But I have a boyfriend
Of course, he has no problem with me experimenting but he doesn't like the idea of me with one of my friends.
I don't have a problem with that but I'm really weird about sex and who it's with, how much safer could I be than with my friends? Not that I really want to experiment with any of my friends after dating one, but it's hard...
I don't even know of anyone other than my friends and I don't just want some random stranger... What to do?
Posted Tue Oct 02, 2007 09:35 PM
Posted Wed Oct 03, 2007 03:24 PM
Posted Sun Oct 07, 2007 11:32 AM
Your boyfriend probably thinks it's just pretty hot and would unconsciously objectify the girl you would be with - something he cannot do with your friend, she's too real to him. He has some vague understanding that it would be cheating. You should appreciate this.
So the question is, how can you fulfill this strong curiosity and keep your boyfriend? Just be careful to treat it all as a game and appeal to his kinky side as much as you can. Probably exactly what you're doing. But hopefully this understanding of the issues involved and the feelings that he's having will help you.
I understand that this is something you are agreeing upon, which would potentially make it 'not cheating', but the problem is that neither of you would initially conceive of it as cheating anyways.
Posted Sun Oct 07, 2007 06:09 PM
Posted Sun Oct 07, 2007 06:12 PM
Posted Mon Oct 08, 2007 09:05 AM
So don't do it.
If U do it , U do it for you, not for him or because your friends are all Bi. It's all about feelings.
Posted Tue Oct 09, 2007 03:43 PM
not the type of guy who love to play with hysteria.
Posted Fri Oct 12, 2007 02:12 AM
Beau only was replying to your comment, you took it really personally and went off on him.
No one on these forums are out to judge you.
Posted Fri Oct 12, 2007 03:12 AM
Posted Fri Oct 12, 2007 11:21 AM
I understand that part of your policy is to protect other users but is telling someone that they need to learn how to spell correctly really that offensive? Aren't we adults here? If I have to put up with him calling me hysterical then he should be a man and handle his spelling.
Ban me if you'd like to but I personally think you're being a little too strict with your laws, Q. I appreciate you letting me know I was out of line.