Is Cyber Sex with Strangers Cheating?
Posted Wed May 02, 2012 05:27 AM
Alright y'all...quick question... is cyber sex cheating? Would you be mad if your partner was doing it?
Posted Wed May 02, 2012 05:43 AM
Posted Wed May 02, 2012 05:49 AM
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Posted Wed May 02, 2012 06:36 AM
Posted Wed May 02, 2012 07:31 AM
Posted Wed May 02, 2012 07:46 AM
If you both know about it, and are both fine with it then no, it's just an extra bit of kink in the relationship. If your partner doesn't know and wouldn't be happy with it, then it's cheating.
When I first joined this site and was single, I had a rule - I would not speak to married or taken men unless their partner was a part of this site and knew about our chats and was ok with it....weeded out a lot of members...
Now I have a partner, who is also a member of sf, and I don't cyber with anyone but him.
Posted Wed May 02, 2012 08:55 AM
Posted Wed May 02, 2012 10:28 AM
Posted Wed May 02, 2012 12:56 PM
I would probably dump my partner if I found them doing it behind my back. There is just something about getting off with someone else when we're supposedly committed to each other, in all ways, that doesn't rub me the right way. If I was for some reason not providing enough sexy time, then I want my partner to come to me, not secretively find other men...thats just wrong..and it shows me a lack of commitment. And that would be the end of the relationship.
Posted Wed May 02, 2012 01:00 PM
Posted Wed May 02, 2012 04:34 PM
Posted Wed May 02, 2012 04:43 PM
said though, I tend to lean towards it isn't cheating because no physical contact was made.
Posted Wed May 02, 2012 04:56 PM
I personally WOULD say it is cheating if I found my S/O searching for girls to get off on, on the internet. To me, that just means I must not be doing my job right.
But, I do camming as a side job. I suppose I do have fun doing it, but I really don't believe I am cheating. I guess, I really don't know what my answer would be. My ex was always mad at me for doing it, but yet, I never thought I was in the wrong. So I really am not sure lol.
Posted Wed May 02, 2012 05:00 PM
Posted Wed May 02, 2012 05:08 PM
Well said! (:
Posted Wed May 02, 2012 06:25 PM
If you wouldn't be doing it if your SO was looking over your shoulder, then you shouldn't be doing it at all.
Posted Wed May 02, 2012 08:56 PM
Cheating : In terms of relationships : Doing or giving anything your spouse/partner would consider to be exclusive unto them within the relationship .
In any shape , form , or fashion , physical or emotional .
So I guess the definition might vary from person to person >:]
Posted Thu May 03, 2012 07:56 AM
-anything going on outside a relationship that is being well addressed within the relationship or done without the other persons knowledge
So is cyber cheating? Could be if not done with consent or maybe not if consent given.
Each case is different I guess.