The illusion that bigger is always better.
Posted Sun May 06, 2012 09:52 PM
agree or disagree?
Posted Sun May 06, 2012 10:25 PM
agree or disagree?
going to agree. This is why in fact I can't go to strip clubs any more because I don't by into the Illusion that any of that is real or that porno is actually real. I have a very wide variety of things I look for in women and I don't always have to find all I am looking for.
Posted Sun May 06, 2012 11:47 PM
Posted Mon May 07, 2012 08:03 AM
He messaged back, and asked to chat on skype. I went on skype and we were talking, only, I could hear him wanking and jokingly called him up on it. He admitted it, and continued to tell me about his humungous cock. I thought the picture of him with this massive pole in his jeans was just a joke, as he had put a jokey comment beside it. eh eh, nooo, it really was that big! He went on to cam to show me, and I nearly went with him but kind of got turned off, which I shall speak about in a sec. Ok, so lets give dimentions, basically a fore arm sized cock the width of a coke can and a half. I mean wtf?! poor fucking guy! that was immediately where my thoughts went.
He told me that he was a virgin, because most girls dont want to or are afraid of hurting themselves. This didnt exactly put me off, if I felt some connection with him then I would have been interested to have a play. Perhaps I could fit a little of his bell in my mouth and suck on it like a lollipop?
But, the thing is, he wouldnt stop comparing! Asking me "isnt my cock the nicest cock you've ever seen?"..."Isnt my cock the best cock ever" etc. But it was too much, continuous, without any sort of natural flow. I dont think like that, and I told him so. "your cock is completely massive and unique, never seen anything like it, but they are all different and I like them for different reasons" type of thing. He SO needed validation, insecure in a way that seemed far more twisted than any little willy guy I have come across. I eventually uncovered that this validation ran so deep that he kind of fantasized about having it worshipped (nothing wrong with this in itself and I played along a little to see what fun it might bring) and then discovered he got off on the thought of beating a woman with it and was so desperate to have sex, that he fantasized really hurting some girls with his penetration, just letting go and hammering them. It became weird and I no longer wanted to get to know him very much, but I felt SO sorry for him!
Since then I have met two other guys on another forum who have started threads about their huge cocks, and I have noticed kind of similar validation seeking behaviour, with notes of similar sexual attitudes and urges coming out in their posts.
While I am not one to write a whole group of people's sexual personalities off because of their cock size, it certainly has been interesting to come across. But I do keep reminding myself that we are all unique and there are probably perfectly nice and genuinely gentle guys out there with beast members (edit: he was nice and all, and so were the other guys in these threads, but specifically with him, and a little with the other guys, there were issues which hopefully will slot in with the urges of some nice lady, but kind of rung alarm bells for me).
But, having a massive (porno forearm sized) cock really isnt such a great thing and this experience made me realise that it is far worse than having a little one.
This post has been edited by blackplato: Mon May 07, 2012 08:13 AM
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Posted Mon May 07, 2012 10:21 AM