Need a way to talk my husband into my fantasy!
Posted Wed May 16, 2012 09:27 PM
Posted Wed May 16, 2012 09:41 PM
Posted Wed May 16, 2012 09:47 PM
Posted Wed May 16, 2012 10:24 PM
This post has been edited by Saysoon: Wed May 16, 2012 10:25 PM
Posted Thu May 17, 2012 05:23 AM
Posted Thu May 17, 2012 08:39 AM
I would never bring a 3rd person into my bedroom and I would not be impressed if hubby suggested it so I think a subtle approach is always best if you are unsure. I think it can be a huge risk to a relationship.
Posted Thu May 17, 2012 10:05 AM
Posted Thu May 17, 2012 07:39 PM
I think the best way is to start talking about fantasies, getting each other comfortable with opening up, then seeing where they go. Once you lay out some basic stuff, you can work up to threesome. He might even be hoping to do it as well.
Not sure how much it will help, but focus on the act, and less on the guy involved so he feels less threatened by it.
Posted Thu May 17, 2012 07:53 PM
Posted Fri May 18, 2012 07:30 AM
Be it man or woman, no talk in the world is going to change some issues folks have as their limits.
A general conversation about it, perhaps commentary on a video rental of this activity, an open discussion with friends or any general type discussion will typically reveal where a persons limits are. You'll get a good feel for that in very short order I would think.
Posted Mon May 21, 2012 01:01 AM
Posted Mon May 21, 2012 11:23 AM
Posted Mon May 21, 2012 12:10 PM
Reality seldom lives up to what they're based upon .
Time for some more of my patented Q fortune cookie advice ..........
Posted Mon May 21, 2012 06:19 PM
Posted Tue May 22, 2012 10:25 AM
If he's comfortable in his own skin, the WORST thing that'll happen is that he'll respectfully decline. I think most guys are ALOT more open to MMF's than females think. Especially if the potential of a future FMF is in the cards
Posted Tue May 22, 2012 12:40 PM
I wanted to watch my wife with another man. During sex....mostly when I was rubbing her kitty....I would talk dirty to her and talk about how much fun it would be to watch her having sex. After several months of this.......I just out and asked her about it. It took nearly a year of talking about it before it happened. It was well worth the wait.
Posted Thu May 24, 2012 10:54 AM
Posted Fri May 25, 2012 04:07 AM