hey guys out there "premature" ejaculation experience?
Posted Sat May 19, 2012 09:17 PM
the first time we ever had sex, I had gone down on her and was licking for a while as foreplay, trying to give her an orgasm before I slid in...I had put a couple of fingers in at one point and noted that she felt extremely tight...when I licked her clit, her muscles would squeeze even more and I was thinking how hot she was going to feel on me, especially because we were going to do it bare back...well, just when I thought she was going to have her orgasm, she pushed my head away and said "I want you inside me"...
I climbed up and put the head of my penis against her opening, she was VERY slick and wet...as I started pushing in, she tipped her head back with closed eyes and drew in her breath slowly and deeply...the sensation for me was like you described, very slippery but very tight squeezing at the same time...I went in very slowly and that squeeze/slippery friction was making my "about to come" sensation build extremely quickly....I got all the way in and stayed still because it felt like I was going to come right then...I said to her "you are so tight, I don't think I'm gonna be able to take it", she said "that's alright, just let it go" and then I felt her start to squeeze and release very slowly...I moaned when I felt that and then tried to start moving...I moved out slowly, back in slowly, out once more and then on the way in I felt another squeeze and had a very, very intense orgasm, burying myself in her as far as I could go...she was pulsing inside in time with my orgasm and I was going crazy from the intense sensation. I was so surprised by how she felt and my inability to hold off...
Posted Sat May 19, 2012 10:15 PM
I've actually had the opposite problem when I first started having sex. I used to go for a long time before I would cum. My first girlfriend would normally cum twice before me everytime we had sex before I came. Anywho, after getting some more experience I figured out how to control when I was ready to cum or not. To me it's just a mindset. When I decide I wanna cum I can do it within a minute or two. If I decide I want to last I just last. I'm not sure how it works. There really isn't any trick, like thinking of Baseball and Margaret Thatcher naked on a cold day (although that works), I just seem to be able to control it. I think it's more to do with the fact that I don't cum easily in the first place so if I don't want to cum I just fuck instead and let her enjoy it (I like giving pleasure anyways) but when I feel like I'm ready to cum I can really get "revved up" and have a great orgasm. That's my 7 cents.
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Posted Mon May 21, 2012 10:32 AM
To some girls out there. I know it can be frustrating for a come to cum to quickly. Though we can practice on our own to prevent this, sometimes we cant help it unless we practice. LIke anything in live, the more you do something (pun intended), the better you get at it. If you were to ask any guy in a relationship, they would tell you the more you have sex with your partner, the longer you will last.