Anal...Surely I'm not the only one who can't do it???
Posted Sun May 20, 2012 07:34 AM
I have tried to like it, really have, but just can't do it. Is it an acquired thing that you didn't like at first, or have you always liked it?
For me, its just painful, and seems a little gross. I'll do a lot of stuff, but not anal.
Seems like some guys expect it, which is annoying... Tried a few times, and not good results. Only the smallest of penis's are even bearable... Thankfully my boyfriend isn't into it either.
Anyone else in the "no anal" boat? Anyone else used to feel the way I do and now like it?
Posted Sun May 20, 2012 07:39 AM
Posted Sun May 20, 2012 07:45 AM
Posted Sun May 20, 2012 09:42 AM
Posted Sun May 20, 2012 09:44 AM
Posted Sun May 20, 2012 09:56 AM
Keep on trying and you might like it. Maybe buy a toy a little smaller than the average cock and work from there. The key facts are lots of lube, try to relax and choose a partner who is more concerned with your comfort than his cumming.
Posted Sun May 20, 2012 03:03 PM
Posted Sun May 20, 2012 05:27 PM
The important thing is that no-one should do something they don't want to do and both parties should respect each other's boundaries.
If ever you do want to give it a try, then use loads of lube and take it really slow.
Posted Sun May 20, 2012 10:15 PM
Is that a Mr. Plinkett Red Letter Media reference I detect?
Onto the subject of anal... It isn't my favorite activity, and it took me a while to get to the point where I kind of enjoy it. Strangely, it was my partner - a woman - who got me into it. She has a thing for butt-fucking me with a strap on. She catches too, but she's much more into receiving. It certainly is an acquired taste, though. And not just among women, either. I've known a lot of guys who think it's gross, too. I mean, consider what that hole is actually used for.
Honestly, I'm still not a huge fan - I do enjoy it, but I'd say that about three quarters of my enjoyment is because it turns her on so much.
Posted Sun May 20, 2012 10:30 PM
Posted Mon May 21, 2012 02:40 AM
Posted Mon May 21, 2012 04:53 AM
Posted Mon May 21, 2012 04:01 PM
Once during a threesome with my husband the guy we were with inquired about it and we ended up going for it and when we were finished I was feeling brave enough or slutty enough to ask my husband if he wanted some too. That kind of broke down a few emotional barriers for me and the guys would up taking turns several times with me enjoying myself quite a bit.
This post has been edited by trophywife4fun: Mon May 21, 2012 04:10 PM
Posted Tue May 22, 2012 09:46 AM
Posted Tue May 22, 2012 02:26 PM
girls and gals too
u like when a men cum inside ur ass?
how do you feel?
my wife dont like anal, but i was the first to do anal with her, she cums while on anal only one time, but never do again
Posted Tue May 22, 2012 03:12 PM
That said, there are some women who don't enjoy it, period....it does have alot to do with trust and relaxation, as well as knowing how to get 'prepared'....
Posted Wed May 23, 2012 05:15 AM
Posted Wed May 23, 2012 09:36 AM
I just personally as a male understand how after a male cums in her ass, next thing you know there is air escaping and brown tinted cum. I just dont understand how it is a turn on for anyone.
I totally agree with the member who started the thread,
PUSSY ALL THE WAY!
This is why you are supposed to clean before engaging in anal. My BF cums in my ass every time we have anal and I love it. Never had any 'messy' issues with it either cause I make sure I am clean. I love feeling his cock swell as he pumps cum.