Sex: A sport or and art?
Posted Tue May 22, 2012 02:22 AM
Posted Tue May 22, 2012 08:09 AM
Posted Tue May 22, 2012 09:37 AM
Sport in the sense that it does require a certain level of athleticism. Also if you're anything like me, you have goals and competitive aspects (I want to make sure that she orgasms when she's with me).
Art in the sense that you must be creative and open minded in order to really experience all that sexuality has to offer. No woman or man is the exact same, which is why sex requires calibration (and not constant repitition) to truly satisfy each individual's needs.
That's my opinion!
Posted Tue May 22, 2012 09:45 AM
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Posted Tue May 22, 2012 11:05 AM
Posted Tue May 22, 2012 11:15 AM
Posted Tue May 22, 2012 12:30 PM
Posted Tue May 22, 2012 01:20 PM
I think I'd side more with the notion of sex as a sport... Possibly a 80% over a 20% of art. I put a lot more emphasis in being physically fit as a prerequisite state to implement your art. If your physique restricts you to a certain range of positions and movements, then the artistry is also restricted. Having said that, sex is in the brain more often than not, and I believe the art of words as a way to manipulate emotions, can move the body to very erotic places, yet the athleticism has to be there to deliver.
Posted Tue May 22, 2012 03:09 PM
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Posted Fri May 25, 2012 07:22 AM
Posted Fri May 25, 2012 11:35 AM
Posted Fri May 25, 2012 03:56 PM
Sex in my bedroom is not a wham bam thank you mam kind of event. We both have the same train of thought, quality vs quanity, so our sexcapades last for several hours due to only doing it 2-3 nights a week. In order to perform for several hours, one needs to be somewhat athletic, which is where the sport aspect comes into play. As for the art ? Well now, seeing that we fancy bondage play, the atmosphere will be set for visual stimulation along with mental stimulation. And that is where the art fits into the equation. I set the mood with lighting and props to help one get into the scene as to which was created.
This post has been edited by Rob2000: Fri May 25, 2012 03:58 PM
Posted Fri May 25, 2012 06:24 PM
Posted Fri May 25, 2012 06:53 PM
My newest partner, we make art, literally, since a lot of our foreplay and interludes are musical, played by us. My pussy is into his virtuosics and his cock is a lot into my Villa-Lobos. It's a Bach here, a Bartok there and whatever follows is heavy on dynamics, rubatos and exquisite phrasing...
Posted Fri May 25, 2012 06:57 PM
Posted Fri May 25, 2012 07:04 PM