Afraid to Ask ?
Posted Fri May 25, 2012 07:34 AM
Why? Too uptight? Are you an open couple or do personal hangups prevent you from sharing and experimenting. It's cool if you don't want to do things like that, but is there a good reason?
Posted Fri May 25, 2012 08:08 AM
Posted Fri May 25, 2012 11:59 AM
Posted Wed May 30, 2012 01:05 AM
Posted Wed May 30, 2012 02:13 AM
What about you ?
Posted Wed May 30, 2012 03:41 AM
A girlfriend I had took a bit of convincing that I wanted her to do my arse with a toy, she thought I was coming out and this was a subtle way of telling her I was gay! She very quickly started to love doing me with a vibrating buttplug when she saw how much I came with it!!
Posted Wed May 30, 2012 04:32 AM
Posted Sun Jun 10, 2012 08:44 AM
I do think it is quite a scary subject for a lot of couples to bring up though
Posted Mon Jun 11, 2012 07:48 AM
Posted Mon Jun 11, 2012 09:37 AM
Posted Mon Jun 11, 2012 02:35 PM
That's what I mean. You can ask, doesn't mean they have to do it. I've been shot down more than I can think of. Eventually the odds had to be in my favor and something would happen, not just strapon play, but it goes for anything.
Posted Mon Jun 11, 2012 03:19 PM
In some cases too the guy actually doesn't get anything out of it so to speak, but does it to accommodate his partners interests and wishes only. But the sharing of experiences none the less is a big trill as you say. Not only that, it takes a man that really has his head on straight as most will deny any such activity for fear of the "gay" branding iron coming out. You make a great point too here about one wanting to go for anal but not the other way around...would have to be a two way street in my opinion.
Posted Mon Jun 11, 2012 06:44 PM
Posted Tue Jun 12, 2012 03:38 AM
Sounds like she either just tried to ram it up there, maybe used too little lube, or maybe a combination of both. I can see how that would be a traumatic experience. As BlasphemousGirl mentioned, it seems the toys we have that will fit the strap on are a little too large for me to take, considering I am still relatively new to anal play.
Posted Sat Jun 23, 2012 02:35 AM