Jealous Ex Sex vs New Girlfriend Sex
Posted Sun May 27, 2012 06:44 PM
Posted Sun May 27, 2012 10:07 PM
Posted Tue May 29, 2012 04:05 PM
Posted Tue May 29, 2012 05:12 PM
Posted Fri Jun 08, 2012 08:19 AM
I'm divorced, and I couldn't care less who the ex is fucking or not fucking. That's why he's the ex, and that's why I fuck single men who aren't bouncing back from a different relationship. My life is simple, so I pick simple men to keep it that way.
This post has been edited by Olive: Fri Jun 08, 2012 08:20 AM
Posted Fri Jun 08, 2012 09:34 AM
Your girlfriend and the mother of your child, both deserve better.
Posted Fri Jun 08, 2012 11:10 AM
Posted Fri Jun 08, 2012 11:12 AM
No Shakey, women don't plan things like this... Not all men would fall into their trap either. Your wife did because she knew you'd fall for it.
This post has been edited by Olive: Fri Jun 08, 2012 11:13 AM
Posted Fri Jun 08, 2012 11:14 AM
Because men, in general, are such willigful 'victims'?
Posted Fri Jun 08, 2012 12:25 PM
I didn't go over there to fuck her. I went over there to help her. Which is good thing. I could have told her to just fuck off. I went over there with good intentions. I wasn't expecting what happened to happen but it did. BUT she had a different plan in mind when I arrived. We were married along time. She probably knows how my mind works and what turns me on better than I do. And, just because I feel for it once doesn't mean I'm going to fall for it again.
Posted Fri Jun 08, 2012 01:26 PM
They require the active participation of 2 people.
It is irrelevant who initiated it, the fact is you did it.
Posted Fri Jun 08, 2012 08:04 PM
It was a fun mindfuck, you got off on her acting out. Whatever, sounds like fun.
But you cheated. You're the victim? The hero? Gimme a break. Own it. And if you really own it, tell your GF, in detail.
My ex wanted the same, I said no.
BTW, your ex cheated too as she's married.
Posted Fri Jun 08, 2012 10:25 PM
Posted Sat Jun 09, 2012 06:20 AM
What a load of BS...there are a lot of women that "plan" this type of thing and from what you relayed, it was planned rather well (help her move because hubby is out of town...ya right ... OK). From time to time, separated or not, women are going to try this type of thing literally out of spite for the new girl in your life almost like trophey hunting...the new gf head on their wall. The are a host of other reasons why women do this type of thing but one thing is a certainty...traps do get set out...no ifs ands or buts about it. Sounds like a lot of other "traps" I have heard about too...the old damsel in distress thing where the man tries to help and then takes the bait...lol....oldest shit in the book.
You are not alone either, as there are a lot of former lovers or former spouses that get along exceptionally well since they have been divorced than they ever did when they were married. In some cases the sex is better than it ever was and other things too just work out better as long as they are not living together. In this type of thing there is no jealousy or anything like that going on though, unlike the situation mentioned about jealous traps being set.
Here is another fine line too...the definition of cheating....you seem to be in no committed relationship legally so is this text book "cheating" or not? I tend to disagree. I can see where it may be in bad taste but going full out I think may be a stretch.
Posted Sat Jun 09, 2012 07:34 AM
just allowing things to get beyond your control is still cheating. it doesn't matter if she seduced you or whatever because your relationship is not her responsibility. sure fucking someone in a relationship is a shitty thing to do but she is not the one who has committed to your girlfriend. you have, and you are the one who broke that commitment by having sex with someone else. you cannot place the blame on her because in the end your decisions were your own, unless you really have so little self control that you can't stop yourself from having sex with your ex, even when you're with someone else. and i know you may have had good intentions, but your intentions are irrelevant now because what's done is done and it doesn't matter if you intended to do it or not because it still happened.
dump your girlfriend. get her out of this whole mess.
Posted Sat Jun 09, 2012 08:09 AM
I respectfuly disagree, got2begood, and dare to say it is you doing the stretching. How come being in a commited relationship, and having sex with another woman without knowledge and approval of your parther is not cheating? I simply fail to see how that can be anything but cheating.
It's pretty much as when you ask a girl how many guys she had sex with. Most of the time count declared will be signifficantly lower than the real one. Like "I was a bit drunk so it doesn't count", "It was a mistake I shouldn't have doen, so it doesn't count", "Doing it was no fun at all, so it doesn't count", etc, etc. Helloooo ... he stuck his cock in your pussy and it doesn't count? Whatever ...
And before the ladies of the forums start screaming bloody murder, I'm not saying ALL women are doing or would do this but I came across quite a few who do.
This post has been edited by SirFoggy: Sat Jun 09, 2012 08:10 AM
Posted Sat Jun 09, 2012 09:22 AM
Mm thats known as having your cake n eating it.lol.
You know fine it'll end in tears,these things always do but hey might aswell enjoy the ride on the way,haha
Posted Sat Jun 09, 2012 11:48 AM
Posted Sat Jun 09, 2012 12:36 PM
Innocent ? I think not.
Really now ?
Self accountability, glad you realize that yes, you indeed allowed this to happen
Bingo ! You were fucking her, so much for being innocent
Yes, you are 100% to blame for your own actions.
Please do not speak for all men, YOU are weak, not all of us. Just because you cannot keep your dick in your pants does not mean that others can't refrain from acting apon sexual urges.
I will say this, reading all of your other controversial posts, I question this entire thread with sketisicm. If this indeed truely took place, then my comments above represent my thoughts. You are responsible for your own actions.....you are a grown ass man, this is something that you should not have to be told. No one forced you to do anything, you did it on your own free will. Blaming others for your lack of restraint is childish, immature, and unwarrented. You and you alone are accountable for your part in all this, regarldess of some "trap" she may have set, the fact remains is you acted apon your own free will and impulse. Just own it man, you look foolish trying to pass the buck when the buck stops right in your own damn hand.
Posted Sat Jun 09, 2012 01:50 PM