What should I do?
Posted Sun Jun 03, 2012 12:00 AM
This past week she had came over and did a threesome with my husband and myself and afterward she confided in me that just before her step son turned eighteen his father started encouraging her to have sex with the step son because of his constant erections for the three years they have been married every time he got around her and he said it would be better than him going out screwing strange girls and maybe getting them pregnant. So the day after he turned eighteen she had sex with him and has been regularly ever sense.
My dilemma is, she has asked me to do a threesome with her and her step son. She told me she proposed the idea to him a couple of months back while they were fucking and she said he got very excited about me joining them. He has seen me naked a number of times in the past when I was over there sunning next to their pool with his step mom and he has always had an erection when he was around us but I just passed it off and being cute and natural.
I am just wondering if this would be crossing some sort of sexual line? The idea of doing it is very erotic to me because I will be the second woman he has ever had sexually. My husband said it is my decision and if I wanted to do it he was fine with it.
What do you think I should do?
Posted Sun Jun 03, 2012 09:03 AM
But then again swinging is not normal either. Husbands don't normally let their wives have sex with other men while they have sex with other women. But we still do that.
I guess the question is, how abnormal do you want to go? Or will this adversely affect the son.
This post has been edited by hrspwr: Sun Jun 03, 2012 09:06 AM
Posted Sun Jun 03, 2012 09:13 AM
Posted Sun Jun 03, 2012 10:33 AM
being afraid of making girls pregnant is not an excuse for his dad to ask his step mum to have sex with him ... beside his step mum is his mum my every mean.
Posted Sun Jun 03, 2012 10:36 AM
If it bothers you, then don't do it. If it pleases you, then do it. And have fun!
Posted Sun Jun 03, 2012 11:23 AM
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Posted Sun Jun 03, 2012 02:27 PM
Let's turn this story upside-down, shall we? Just for the sake of argument, let's assume your friend was married for a guy and she had a daughter. In order to prevent her to screw with strange guys and get pregnant she starts encourageing her husband to have sex with her daughter. So the day she turns 18 her step-father fucks her. Now how does this sounds? Complete screw-up if you ask me.
It is dangerous world out there, you know. Why of all things this father is afraid of his son fucking some strange girls and making them pregnant? Why he is not afraid that he could go out and break his leg? Would anyone thought it was normal behaviour if, for those reasons, this father restricted his son to their living room and never let him go out not even on the front lawn?
Apart from legal perspective of him being minor at 17 yesterday and today on his 18th birthday not any more, is he any more mature emotionaly and psychologically just because he turned 18? I would strongly argue he is not. Now, I am not saying that someone at tender age as this young man should not have sex with older women. Not at all but providing it is not 'in-the-house' relationship. Having sex with his step mother will create kind of attachment which, in a long run, is anything but a healthy one. You said that your friend (the step-mother) is very sexy woman. Now she is trying to introduce yet another sexy woman for her step-son to have sex with.
Ask yourself, why this young man would ever go out and try to establish a relationship which would be more appropriate and healthier for his age when he has free and unlimited access to two sexy women? I can perfectly understand why he is so excited about the whole idea. It is dream-come-true of every testosterone-pumped 18 year old man to have sexual access to two sexy women without making any effort on his part and just by virtue of having an idiot for his father. For how long they intend to have this going? Are there any rules in place like he can fuck his step-mother every other weekend but only once? Or it's a free-for-all?
Damage may have already been done and to what extent only time will tell.
In some 37 years of sexual activities I did a lot of weird stuff so I can hardly count myself as an angel, not even bt wildest stretch of imagination. However, if presented with situation like this one I would become very suspicious of motives behind actions of both the step-mother and the father of this young man. Not only that but I would simply cut off all the ties and have nothing to do with them.
Just my 2 cents.
Posted Sun Jun 03, 2012 05:45 PM
I am kind of torn on this. On one hand I agree with some that it is kind of strange for the father to want his son to have sex with his own wife, there is something a bit whacky with that, but at the same time kind of hot lol. But at any rate they are already doing that so the question is more about your involvement. And it seems you have the desire to do it and everyone is ok with it so I think you should do it. And if it does get messy it should be easy for you to wash your hands of the situation since you are not in their circle you can just cut ties with them.
So I say fuck it, do it...but I can understand any decision made in this case. Would love to get an update.
Posted Sun Jun 03, 2012 10:02 PM
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Posted Thu Jun 07, 2012 07:28 PM
And yes, she only has sex with him one night a week... that was her rule to keep from loosing any control of the situation.
And yes the idea of it is very odd to me also but the idea of doing a threesome with them is also extremely erotic to me also.
This is gonna be a hard decision!
Posted Fri Jun 08, 2012 04:35 AM
This sounds like it could turn out bad in the longer term, what concerns me more is the stepmom sex. If you had sex with the boy then that is kinda more mainstream, it's not unusual for young guys to hit up or get hit upon by a parents friend.
I do think this is going to mess his head up longer term relationship wise though. As mentioned above his father (and stepmom) should teach him about respect for partners and birth control, that way getting a girl pregnant should be a slim problem.
This guy is not in a 'normal' family environment, I'm not say it's bad or wrong but not the social norm. Wandering round infront of my parents friends (however hot they may be) with an erection sounds like a kind of nightmare to me. What I'm worried about here is how this boy is going to relate to girls his own age and from his peer group, and how he's going to forge sexual relationships with them. My guess is any potential girl will probably want a monogamous relationship and would be grossed out that he's been screwing his (step)mom, or worst case scenario, find out he's still having sex with his stepmom whilst sleeping with his girlfriend.
My opinion: for his sake I think his parents (step or otherwise) should stop sexual relations. I think for you, your friendship with them, and for his sake, don't take this any further. He needs to go out and find out about sexual relations in the 'real' world. He may end up being pretty 'bored' or turned off with girls his own age, especially if they are virgins or of little experience after having (what I would imagine) some wild nights with two sexually experienced ladies.
I think dad needs to have a reality check. This is his son and wife he's messing with here, kinky, erotic sexy fun now but potentially a huge messy relationship problem that could have catastrophic fallout for all of them.
Posted Fri Jun 08, 2012 11:14 AM