Toys you like to use on your partner Do you have a preference?
Posted Mon Jun 04, 2012 07:59 AM
Posted Mon Jun 04, 2012 12:15 PM
I am the opposite but I understand where you are coming from just from the opposite side of it. *giggling* I have many friends who are like you and they are all the time trying to convince me of their take on it. I get it, but they still try to prove their case – so to speak. It is a personal preference and desire and it is what they like.
I so love to use toys on my husband anally but I prefer to use non-penis like. Though entering him with anything is fun, watching a penis enter him does not appeal to me. The also are not a comfortable to him and he agrees that a penis is bit of a turn off though the penetration itself can be pleasurable unless ridged. The hard ridged ones can some times cause him discomfort and I am seldom able to ram him and pound him with those.
We prefer smooth somewhat flexible toys that have bumps or bulbs in them. I love to watch the head or a large bulbed toy spreads him wide open and then pops in! Sort of like anal beads on steroids. The pleasure my husband gets from this is amazing! Three bumps are the best. I also love feeling it with my fingers as they bump in and out stretching and then sucking up tight around the toy. I can include my fingers in along side the toy after a bump which is incredible to feel. Also once I have pumped him several times I am able to begin ramming and eventually pounding him with these types of toys which gets me of in a major way (oh yes and him too – lol).
With regards to a real penis, whew…neither of us have any desire for that to take place. He is all man that only wants all women and thank goodness I am more than enough for him so he doesn’t actually need but one. J
Posted Mon Jun 04, 2012 12:29 PM
Posted Tue Jun 05, 2012 04:11 AM
I know what you mean honeypie, about smooth toys. Good just to start with and open things up but then are boring, my SO used to love using a butt plug that stepped up in stages, not quite ribbed but three graduating sizes. She loved it as it 'popped' in at each one. I love using a glass dildo that is ribbed, the feel is amazing.
We used to use a big penis shaped vibe a long time ago, I loved using it on her as it was quite large and it filled her, this gave her obvious pleasure. But once I was able to fist her we never used it again, my hand became the new toy and we loved it!!
Posted Tue Jun 05, 2012 05:08 AM
I'm with sheralynn, not too big on the "looks like a cock toys" for me or her. Some of the other fun shapes are just more interesting and fun!
Posted Sun Jul 01, 2012 08:18 AM
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Posted Sun Jul 08, 2012 05:53 PM
I just made some fun spreader bars, keeps her legs open!
On me, I like the "real" strap-on dildo, lots of veins and big head.
Posted Sun Jul 08, 2012 11:53 PM
Now on the other hand I have a real problem with not feeling worth the attention (probably a huge part of why Im single) or good enough to get a woman off alone so at the same time as thinking a partner using toys/using toys on a partner would be sexy, I have a feeling it might make me feel like I was worth even less, that I just wasn't good enough for her without the toys, and the more I'd use toys on her, the harder it'd be for her to get off without them. so like many thoughts I have I go round and round with the idea and wondering if it would be good or not.
Does that fit the question of the o.p. enough? I know I have a tendency to take a left turn
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Posted Tue Jul 17, 2012 07:57 PM
nothing looks as good as watchung my wife cum all over a toy as she smashes her own box with it,
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