[nymph4one]

I think I am watching too much Big Bang Theory, but I decided to get on a sex chat room (or whatever) to ask real advice from real men about what I need to do to please my fiance. I don't real Cosmo, or any of those other mags. As an educated woman, I know that is likely a bunch of crap. The one time I decided to have an open mind and try it, my fiance was freaked out.

Any woman who listens to 20 minutes of TV or conversation between men knows men like oral sex. I have to admit it is hard on me as the woman and a lot of woman probably don't like it for the same reason I don't. Frankly, it hurts my mouth. But, I want to please my man. I have tried to deep throat (a little like trying to get a watermelon into a straw, but I try). I am willing to try other things. I read men like the area behind the scrotum licked and some like a pinkie inserted in the rear. He nearly jumped out of the bed (definitely no on either).


A little role play here. If I were your girlfriend, what would you want me to do? The reason I love him so much is he is not selfish at all and tries to please me all the time. I can't get him to tell me what he wants. If I hear a large enough percentage of men out there telling me what they like, then I have a better shot at doing the thing that will drive him crazy, but for which he is too traditional to ask for. There are no wrong answers here. We all have those little things that make us nuts and even we cannot explain why. If it were simple, there wouldn't be PhD's studying this stuff.


All I know is I want to satisfy him like he has never been satisfied. He tells me I already do, but I know there is always room for improvement. Suggestions?


BJ (and yes, those are my first and middle initials, for real)

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[quietnfun]

Hi Nymph4one

I thought it was funny about the Big Bang Theory comment. First of all, I like to compliment you on your willingness to make your relationship with your fiancee stronger and more pleasurable. I know anytime you experiment with something and they don't expect it, they might get a little freaked out. However, I think openness to discussion and sharing helps. We all grow up with certain influences and experiences that do have an impact on our pysch'e.

I wouldn't give up. Try this tact. Based upon what you said, he is not selfish to please you. Tell him what you like to try and talk to him about it. Sometimes you lead, the others will follow. Conversation is the key.

Also you mention there are those little things that drive us nuts, tell him what you like to get the exchange going. He may just being traditional because that's what you expect. My point, there is so many possibilities here, only a good open conversation will make things happen.

Good luck

Quietnfun

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