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help me pls my man boyfriends older n need help gettin him off
Posted Sat Jun 23, 2012 01:47 PM
Posted Mon Jun 25, 2012 03:47 AM
Some guys like to go and go, has he said anything?
i would have thought that if your previous experience was that bad, then quite honestly i would have thought your nether regions would be a true delight to any guy, talk your concerns over with your new lover!
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Posted Mon Jun 25, 2012 04:34 AM
Sweetheart has some good points there. What you, wannaplease, should keep in mind is that not all men are same. I myself have never been 'fast' and it didn't got any better with age. Sometimes it may take 2 or 3 sessions before I cum, sometimes I don't at all. Some of my partners, and more so the younger ones or while the relationship is still fresh, have not been very happy with that. Some would even take it as a sign of them not being enough sexually attractive to me, or if they were doing something wrong. All of which couldn't be further from truth. And let me assure you that, whether I would cum or not, sex was always very satisfying.
Now I understand your concerns but perhaps that's just the way your man is. You say that he is very experienced but for some men new partner is, in a way, their first ever. You don't know each other very well yet, there's a lot to be explored and learned. Even experienced men have a bit of anxiety at the beginning and this can affect their performance in many different ways. Anxiety can make some men to cum faster just as it can make some to cum slower than they normally would. What kind, if any, of protection you may be using is another thing to take into account. Some men, myself included, think of condoms as devilish invention or necessary evil. What ever the case may be, condoms will make them last longer or unable to cum at all. Some men, on the other hand, may be under pressure of not making their partners pregnant. This happens even if you are on pills and he is wearing a condom - subconscious mind can sometimes play very dirty tricks.
What I would warn you about is that you should not feel disappointed or express it if you are. This can put even more pressure on him to 'perform' which would not make things any better. People way to often forget that our main sex organ is between our ears, not few inches below our belly button. If things 'upstairs' are not working right they certainly wont work well 'downstairs' either.
I wouldn't pay to much attention to this yet. Your relationship is still fresh and things, hopefully, will improve as you get to know each other better and become more comfortable.
Posted Mon Jun 25, 2012 04:45 AM
Posted Mon Jun 25, 2012 12:00 PM
Posted Mon Jun 25, 2012 04:30 PM
You are most welcome, wannaplease. I am very glad our answers were helpful. The most important thing is that you love each other. Each and every relationship has its own 'problems', question is when you will have them, not if you will. No problem is too big or impossible to overcome as long as you guys keep discussing about them in an open and respectful manner.
Wish you and your man best of luck.
Posted Sun Jul 15, 2012 06:22 PM