The long kiss Oh, my, my, my...
Posted Tue Jun 26, 2012 03:10 AM
It's sooo good. I melt, my knees weak... it's so sexual... his lips, tongue doing things to mine... I feel like I'm out of my body, goose bumps all over... my toes go tense... my hands tremble... as he goes on, my clit gets more and more tense, as if half my blood was there... my pussy contracts involuntarily, his, so his...
My nipples grown involved in that massage with his chest... I feel a bit of a cold in my stomach, as if I could faint... sometimes I can't resist it anymore and I "ruin" it: I tilt my hips, so as to touch my clit on his erection through our clothing... and I climax in his kiss... my moans resonating on his lips...
Aahhh... his long kiss...
How do men learn to do that? Are you a good kisser? How did you learn it? Not all men are that good. How did you become a good kisser?
Posted Tue Jun 26, 2012 08:55 AM
Practice makes perfect as they say. But then again, doing things wrong way over and over again and no amount of practice will make any difference. One who wants to share, or even better yet to give, pays attention, and enjoys doing it has all the chances of becoming a good kisser. Kissing a woman as if I have just found a well after being lost in a desert for days or as if that kiss is the very last thing I'll ever do in my life ... guess that makes a difference.
Are you a good kisser?
Quite a few ladies I have had pleasure kissing with manifested "symptoms" similar to those described in your post. I would then hazard a guess that I'm not a bad kisser.
How did you become a good kisser?
Assuming that I am, see my first paragraph.
By the way, just reading your post got me all fired up. Problem is, there's no one for me to kiss for another 10 days or so. Well, not in that way at least ...
Posted Tue Jun 26, 2012 10:06 AM
Are you a good kisser?
Quite a few ladies I have had pleasure kissing with manifested "symptoms" similar to those described in your post. ...
Then you surely are! I bow to your art. In my experience, it's way easier to find a man who's good in the other stances of sex than a good kisser. And the thing is that I do like the guy taking the lead in at least that. It's the "being in his arms" kind of thing... like dancing the tango: I wanna be led, not lead. A good kisser makes me feel like... I'm looking for words... I can't find a word, but I mean something like "feminine", "lovable"... hum, I really can't find a word... it brings a sort of abandon, of yielding... hum, my vocabulary is failing me.
Posted Tue Jun 26, 2012 10:23 AM
Posted Tue Jun 26, 2012 01:52 PM
Not quite sure why but it seems to me that, and more so the passionate kind of, kissing somehow lost it's value and importance once it used to have. It almost became something that has to be done with before proceeding to some serious groping, and full-blown penetrative sex. If we are lucky enough to have a kiss at all that is.
Kiss is part of the journey just as much as penetration or, for that matter, any other part of the sexual encounter. Because it happens so early I would argue it is even more important than what is to follow. Now before some start screaming bloody murder, nothing wrong with quick&dirty kind of sex. It has its place and purpose but, IMO, quite limited one. It is my experience that if I make a woman slumber in my arms when I kiss her, I don't have to be the best and the greatest in bed for her to keep coming back for more. Not so the other way around. Memorable kiss starts way before our lips meet; it starts as we approach, gazing into each other eyes, hearts pumping, bodies shivering in expectation, with the first and almost hesitant touches.
Just look at Humphrey Bogart and Mary Astor in The Maltese Falcon or Humphrey Bogart and Ingrid Bergman in Casablanca and you'll know what I mean. Back then it was hard to see any skin let alone anything else but, boy oh boy, air in these scenes is so full of sexual tension - almost to the bursting point. There was no need for us to see what happens after they kiss; we knew it! What we would imagine was infinite times better than actually seeing them naked and doing it. Well, for me it was ...
Just some random rumblings of an old guy ...
word you were looking for if I may suggest ... surrender
This post has been edited by SirFoggy: Tue Jun 26, 2012 01:56 PM
Posted Tue Jun 26, 2012 06:52 PM
As a teenager in the 1970s, there was a dance step I wanted to learn, called The Bump. I saw that there were guys that tried it, with disastrous results. Wanting to avoid that fate, I practiced in a doorway, to get the balance and the right pressure of contact (don't want to knock the lady down...). I was happy that my practice paid off.
There is, however, no doorway for the kiss.
No face to hold, no hair to brush aside, no eyes to gaze into and no hips to squeeze. No lips and tongue to tease and tangle. You have to find a living, breathing, feeling, responding partner.
I'm grateful for the many women who took a chance on my kiss- and even more grateful to those who gave me a second chance.
This post has been edited by Scotty Wright: Tue Jun 26, 2012 06:52 PM
Posted Fri Jun 29, 2012 05:14 AM