Why are young guys attracted to older women?
Posted Fri Jun 29, 2012 06:37 PM
Posted Fri Jun 29, 2012 07:12 PM
Posted Fri Jun 29, 2012 07:37 PM
I've always kind of been more mature than a lot of people my age growing up, have always had older friends... Older woman are easier to sit down and have a conversation with rather than young girls... Plus, they know what they are doing:D
Hope that helps a little bit?
Posted Fri Jun 29, 2012 07:56 PM
This post has been edited by ilyushin: Fri Jun 29, 2012 07:57 PM
Posted Fri Jun 29, 2012 08:10 PM
Posted Fri Jun 29, 2012 08:54 PM
In all fairness Jade, using this site as a statistical berometer would be a bit skewed. Take into consideration that those who frequint the forums only make up a small fraction of the worlds population and there is alot of truth to the sterotype. But I do agree with you, not all young girls are clueless drama queens. But with that said, maturity does typically develope with age. I know when I was in my early 20's, majority of the girls I knew did fit into the sterotypical mold of immaturity. And in all fairness, so did the boys. And from my own personal experience, all the older women I had sex with rocked my world more so than any girl within my own age bracket ever did. So from those expereinces, I'd have to agree that the older women I have been with ( minus one ) were all firecrackers in bed when I compare them to girls in my own age group.
Posted Fri Jun 29, 2012 09:03 PM
Posted Fri Jun 29, 2012 10:08 PM
Also, I can understand going for someone 5 or even 10 years older, but isn't it a little creepy when the older woman is old enough to be their mother?!! Isn't 20-25 yrs older a bit extreme?
Posted Fri Jun 29, 2012 10:21 PM
Posted Fri Jun 29, 2012 10:35 PM
Posted Fri Jun 29, 2012 10:39 PM
Posted Fri Jun 29, 2012 11:11 PM
Im really not sure why it all came along however, i've felt like that since i was in High school in my teens.
I feel younger people around my age are not as mature, as they just want to go out, get wasted every weekend, which is really not my thing!
Posted Fri Jun 29, 2012 11:14 PM
Posted Fri Jun 29, 2012 11:22 PM
The casual look but can dress up in a lovely dress for a night out or to work etc
Posted Sat Jun 30, 2012 12:40 AM
So to all you lovely and attractive ladies I "Salute" you!
Posted Sat Jun 30, 2012 02:56 AM
In practice what are men attracted to in the world? Sure we can go to college campuses and find 18 year old blondes that most men would die to fuck but thats not the image anyone uses. It's not the image that sells sex. Look at Victorias Secret models. Yes most of them are young women but look at how they are presented. They find models that look/are well developed all around and have the features that can be made to represent a more mature look and attitude. Do their faces in their shoots look like that of a girls or that of a womans? I submit that their facial features and expressions in their shoots convey a message that says "Yes I am very sexy, very confident, I can and will fight if my back is aganst a wall, now come and get me if you dare."
In a relationship...I have always gravitated toward the older crowd. That is because they tend to talk about more things. They have many more past experiences to draw from in discussion, tend to enjoy a more serious conversation (such as news or current events), and one can not deny that as we get older we generally get more on course with a life path. The older we get the more we learn what we like and don't like, who we are and who we are not, where we have been and where we are going, this list goes on. Point is older people have lives and are going to let me put in an honest 40 and still know I love them if I don't text them 20 times a day. The odds that their life is going to loop into a whole different direction decrease as they are already more than likely invested in some sort of life path and that provides stability and foundation.
Just my two zinc cents. My girlfriend is 6 years older than me. I am 24 she is 30. Been together almost a year which is not long but we are doing great. We both say it is the best relationship we have ever been in.
Posted Sat Jun 30, 2012 03:29 AM
It is not wham bam thank you mam, leaving the girl totally unsatisfied, which is possibly why he went off and found a "teacher"
Posted Sat Jun 30, 2012 04:26 AM
As far as how a woman dresses, it depends on the occasion. It's nice to dress up and it's nice to dress down. There is beauty in all things.
This post has been edited by so-crates: Sat Jun 30, 2012 04:27 AM
Posted Sat Jun 30, 2012 06:27 AM
I know my bf wants to play with an older lady (50ish) but I'm not sure yet as we only play together and the idea is a little weird to me!
But I will say that I can't wait to be the older lady and play with a much younger guy
Posted Sat Jun 30, 2012 07:35 AM
Some reasons was their very demeanour was superior to the younger gals, their poise, stature, style and class. They also could communicate in a deeper knowledge way and every other word wasn't "duh" "ugh" or "like". Of course too was the sheer presence they had with well matured bodies that often would put many younger gals to shame.
You could talk to them about everything and anything too, since if they accepted to engage you in conversation it was because they were actually interested in you and your topic, unlike the younger gals that were always kind of looking past you, playing with their hair and wondering if the next good looking guy that walked by was going to make a pass at them. And talk you could as they knew what they were talking about from experience, not just a whole lot of supposition and conceived notions.
Of course too, they were masters of seduction too and knew when they had you on the hook and were able to engage that seduction with all their wit and charm...something that younger gals just can't compare to.
And there was no need of trading nudie pics, sending any kind of sexting messages or any of the crap going on today...it was real, genuine and needed no such extracurricular activities to cultivate it...just good old "here I am, this is me"...no pretending...no head games...no bull
Just my opinion and thanks for putting up the post...brings back many a fond memory.