Need help! Don't know what to do.
Posted Sun Jul 01, 2012 10:56 PM
23 years, 3 girlfriends, 2 prom dates and I'm still a virgin. I've never even had as much as a handjob. I've only seen one girl naked who wasn't a stripper, and even that was a "feel sorry for you" kinda thing. I'm about to drive 10 hours back to my hometown to see my oldest friend on earth (who is also one of the girlfriends). Me and her have a history...dated for a solid year, and known each other for 12 years. She knows literary everything about me and I know lots about her. A while back she sent me some drunk texts and asked If I would ever fuck her...she is my dream girl and I told her I wouldn't have to think twice about it. Things took off from there and it ended with her sending me some pics and telling me what she would do to me if I was there. Now she wants to see me again and I have no idea what to do. Part of me wants to ask what if anything is going to happen. Part of me is just happy to see her because she is my oldest friend on earth. She has had sex before and knows I'm a virgin, and that I wanted her to be my first. A while back she asked when I was coming home and if I still wanted to meet. Any thoughts or help would be greatly appreciated!
Posted Sun Jul 01, 2012 11:20 PM
Posted Sun Jul 01, 2012 11:23 PM
Everything will work out as it is supposed too. She knows how you feel, all you need to do is let her know that you are there to collect. And you can do that without words.
Sounds to me like you have been putting this together for 12 years. Oldest friend. Knows all your secrets. Intimately close. Everything for a great relationship is right in front of you. Good luck
Posted Sun Jul 01, 2012 11:37 PM
Posted Mon Jul 02, 2012 12:44 AM
Posted Mon Jul 02, 2012 02:44 AM
Don't! Just be natural and try to relax.
I know that is easier said than done, but take it from an old guy (who used to be shy, was older than you when he lost his virginity but now has been married 25 wonderful years) that sex is a pleasure, not an ordeal or a test of your manhood/maturity/fertility/virility.
It sounds like this girl likes you for what you are, not whether you've had sex or not, so everything is in your favour.
I envy you for all the great sexual experiences and discoveries you have ahead of you.