Posted Tue Jul 03, 2012 02:01 AM
Posted Tue Jul 03, 2012 02:13 AM
Posted Tue Jul 03, 2012 02:59 AM
Posted Tue Jul 03, 2012 04:29 AM
"You may, or perhaps not, read in one of my posts about the type of relationship I'm in. For the sake of those who didn't and don't want to digg through the forums here's the digest of it. For number of years I am in relationship with 4 different women. Thing is, all four of them know they are not my exclusive lovers, they pretty much know all important facts about the others, and some even met in person. At the same time, I'm not the only lover to any of those four. We all are in agreement that everyone is free to have affairs with other people providing nothing stupid like unprotected sex with complete strangers is taking place - anything else is a fair game. Cut the long story short, we all have comparable interests and values, and providing logistics are right, share passions.
Not exactly kind of a relationship you would expect someone coming from a very traditional roman catholic family would end up in. I did have a bit of problems now and then with my family and friends, especially my parents were not happy about the whole thing. I've decided to stick with what makes me hapy and let them worry about me ending up in hell for all my sins On the other hand, for a very long time I no longer think in terms of rights or wrongs. I rather think if what I'm about, or thinkig about, to do is wise thing to do. Wise from my very limited perspective of course. If it is, then I'll go and do it. If not, then I will not do it. Saves you a lot of head banging on rights and wrongs and all that stuff. Not sure if this makes any sense to anyone else but myself but important thing is, it works for me."
Nothing much more to say to it; it works for some, and for some it doesn't.
Posted Tue Jul 03, 2012 04:58 AM
Posted Tue Jul 03, 2012 05:08 AM
Now now, LDG. How come a lovely girl like yourself has no boyfriend? It should be all over the news if all men in your area have gone blind all of a sudden Now go and get yourself one or - even better yet - two, and you might not be into eating the face off of anyone who your bf slept with.