IS IT WRONG
Posted Tue Jul 17, 2012 06:57 PM
Posted Tue Jul 17, 2012 08:56 PM
Posted Tue Jul 17, 2012 10:10 PM
You say you love your current partner... If that's truly the case, I can't see this being a problem for you. If you feel you're so focused on other women all day long that it's getting in the way of your daily routine, then it might be worth talking to her about it. Let her know that you like to look at other girls but that you're 100% committed to her and her only (telling her this of course depends on the kind of personality she is and how you feel she would handle such talk!). It's obviously just my opinion but I feel being open and honest on these matters is the only way to go. That being said, I do respect that most people just aren't geared this way and the very concept of their partner 'checking out' other people, harmless as it may be, to be unacceptable.
It's really up to you and whether you feel this is becoming a problem enough to warrant a sit-down talk with her about it. I'm crazy about someone at the moment (it's early days though) however I do enjoy looking at other women and just wondering... I think it's only normal. I would NEVER do anything with anyone else, yet I'm a man - I can't help but look If we reach a stage where we are exclusively with one another and we start opening up, I wouldn't hesitate to tell her this right off the bat - it needs to be made clear so there's no awkwardness later on.
I feel like I'm just waffling on and on... It's so hard to give you any kind of perfect answer. It is ultimately a personal choice you need to make yourself based on your partner and the situation as you see it!
Posted Wed Jul 18, 2012 01:27 PM
If she's jealous about this or if it interferes with your relationship, then you might want to seek help. But if it's just something you find yourself doing and still feel the same about your partner, then I wouldn't necessarily say that you have anything to worry about.
If you start thinking about and seriously considering cheating on her, then you should probably start to worry.
Posted Wed Jul 18, 2012 02:46 PM
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Posted Wed Jul 18, 2012 08:52 PM