Condom for oral am i crazy for asking?¿
Posted Thu Aug 02, 2012 10:05 PM
I recently met a guy I like online but he lives on the same city as me , for a change tho...always get to meet guys who are far away.....
Anyhow, we started talking about sex and I told him i woudnt give him oral without a condom, and long story short he said I was paranoid, a lil crazy and good luck for me finding a boyfriend...
I tried to explain to him that if we were in a relationship I wouldnt be asking for a condom for oral and still he thinks I am over reacting or crazy to give oral with a condom....
What do u guys think, would this drive u away? Shouldt he be happy that I want to be safe?
Awaiting for ur coments guys and gals
Posted Thu Aug 02, 2012 10:26 PM
Smart move on your part to use one.
Posted Fri Aug 03, 2012 11:22 AM
Posted Fri Aug 03, 2012 12:59 PM
But again - a BJ with a condom is still a BJ!!!
I've wondered how that's supposed to work when a guy goes down on a woman. A condom seems like a very simple answer in your example. Not sure I'd enjoy giving oral sex if we had to use Saran Wrap!
Posted Fri Aug 03, 2012 01:10 PM
Posted Fri Aug 03, 2012 01:41 PM
Dear missannethroap , u are right and thats what i thought when i first told him it wasnt safe to do oral without a condom and he answered: "so?"
Posted Fri Aug 03, 2012 08:47 PM
Posted Fri Aug 03, 2012 09:18 PM
Posted Sat Aug 04, 2012 05:57 AM
Unless there is no doubt what so ever...use a condom or tell him to take a flying leap.
Posted Sat Aug 04, 2012 08:42 AM
Posted Mon Aug 06, 2012 02:42 AM
This guy sounds llike he regularly fucks without, so has probably got all sorts of STD's that you really don't want. If I were you, I'd kick him to the kerb and go and find someone else who will use protection.
Posted Mon Aug 06, 2012 04:53 AM
I have talked about this before. Sorry for the news, but it sort of takes the fun out of sex for some.
WARNING: It is probably most important with casual sex, but can extend to longtime partners who had an occasional romp. The unknowing male can be in serious trouble. There are vaccinations against it...however most people will never understand or get the connection of HPV and oral sex. Just a little while ago, a Father was diagnosed with throat cancer caused by HPV. His wife had cheated on him earlier. He had his entire family vaccinated.
This is just HPV...there is plenty of other stuff circulating. People do not seem to realize, disease originates somewhere and gets passed on quietly and mysteriously.
About 6 years ago, I mentioned to everyone here that the days of unprotected casual sex are coming to an end...this reinforces my statement. Some members here were in disbelief. So here goes. KAZ.
A virus spread by oral sex may cause more cases of throat cancer in men than smoking, a finding that spurred calls for a new large-scale test of a drug used against the infection.
Researchers examined 271 throat-tumor samples collected over 20 years ending in 2004 and found that the percentage of oral cancer linked to the human papillomavirus, or HPV, surged to 72 percent from about 16 percent(HUGE INCREASE....RATHER SCARY....KAZ), according to a report released yesterday in the Journal of Clinical Oncology. By 2020, the virus-linked throat tumors -- which mostly affected men -- will become more common than HPV-caused cervical cancer, the report found.
HPV is known for infecting genitals. The finding that it can spread to the throat and cause cancer may increase pressure on Merck & Co., the second-largest U.S. drugmaker, to conduct large-scale trials to see if its vaccine Gardasil, which wards off cervical cancer in women, also prevents HPV throat infections.
Those interested in more vital info, google HPV cancer and oral sex. KAZ
This post has been edited by kazantzakis: Mon Aug 06, 2012 04:57 AM
Posted Mon Aug 06, 2012 09:27 AM
Posted Mon Aug 06, 2012 09:37 AM
One night stands or casual sex, you should always use protection.
Im also wondering how women would react to glad wrap / saran wrap being placed over their pussys when going down on them lol.
Posted Mon Aug 06, 2012 10:36 AM
Posted Tue Aug 07, 2012 10:28 AM