Sex with Friend
Posted Sun Aug 12, 2012 09:37 PM
Posted Sun Aug 12, 2012 09:49 PM
Posted Sun Aug 12, 2012 10:06 PM
Thank you for the advice. We have talked about it and I feel we are both clear. However, I feel like she ultimately wants more and that this will end. I love the way things are now but I fear it will end abruptly and I am not ready for that. Can women really be okay with this situation and allowing it to continue?
This post has been edited by jedigeek: Sun Aug 12, 2012 10:07 PM
Posted Sun Aug 12, 2012 10:23 PM
While you might have both talked about the situation, I don't think you both are clear on what is happening between you both. You both need to talk again and discuss how it might end etc as in if one of you find a different partner etc. That way it will ease your fear of it how it could end abruptly as you will know and have talked about it previously. Yes girls can be ok with being FWB, especially if both partners are aware of the rules and know that if need they can be discussed at any stage. I wish you both all the best with it.
Posted Sun Aug 12, 2012 11:10 PM
Posted Mon Sep 03, 2012 09:29 PM
Just another case of friends with benefits not working. I would caution anyone involved in this. It can be great while it lasts, but it bound to have a sudden, abrupt ending.
This post has been edited by jedigeek: Mon Sep 03, 2012 09:42 PM
Posted Tue Sep 04, 2012 06:50 PM
i think you both are compatible and get on very well obviously. you mentioned that. in a relationship, both have to make compromises and sacrifices to make a relationship work. i think one or both of you are unwilling to make sacrifices and changes to your lives to make a relationship work. in a way, 1 or both of you are selfish and only want the sex and fun of being together, but not the responsibilities and SELFLESSNESS of being together.
you say she's looking to have more and eventually get married (to someone, not necessarily you). you say you're happy with the way things are. to me that says she's willig to make changes to her life, and you are not. whether you're not willing, or you're not ready or whatever reason, that's a different matter.