Suppressing Sexual Fantasies
Posted Wed Aug 15, 2012 08:32 PM
I have a sexual fantasy/desire (that I don't particularly wish to disclose) that is causing arguments between my girlfriend and I and it's been made pretty clear that she is not interested in experimenting with it at all. Unfortunately it's something that I desire very strongly but have never had much opportunity to try it (two quick experiences in my lifetime).
I want to suppress this desire/fantasy as I don't want it upsetting my partner anymore and I don't want to be left feeling frustrated. Any tips/advice/any form of help would be greatly appreciated.
Posted Wed Aug 15, 2012 08:54 PM
Unfortunately, it seems to be the way the human mind works that the more you try not to think about something the more it will invade your thoughts.
Posted Wed Aug 15, 2012 08:55 PM
Posted Thu Aug 16, 2012 02:01 AM
Posted Thu Aug 16, 2012 12:09 PM
Often she has said she has no fantasies and she is completely happy the way things are. I can accept that most times but once and a while I'll step out over the edge with my thoughts and get extremely frustrated with the whole situation. Takes me a bit of time for me to calm down.
Posted Thu Aug 16, 2012 12:43 PM
Posted Thu Aug 16, 2012 01:42 PM
Posted Thu Aug 16, 2012 04:35 PM
You can't have everything you want, relationships need compromise.
Try to find new fantasies that you can do with your gf.