Hurts using condums. Can my girlfriend be sensitive to condums?
Posted Sun Sep 02, 2012 09:08 AM
My girl and i have started to use condums after she had our baby. We waited for 2months before starting to have sex, and after about 30mins of penetration she says it start to hurt and want me to finish quick.
Is it normal for a girl to feel pain from a condum after a certain used time? or could it just be because she is not 100% recovered?
Posted Sun Sep 02, 2012 09:14 AM
We got tested and did it without to be ride of the hurt. (I was also on the pill). However maybe more lube or a different condom brand could perhaps do the trick.
I hope you find a solution, and that the sex will be enjoyable for you both.
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Posted Mon Sep 03, 2012 09:50 AM
Does she get a hot burning itching sensation that could last anywhere between a few hours to a couple of days? If she does, then yes, she might be allergic. If not, then it could be as mentioned above, just lack of proper lubrication and she might be getting a rubber burn or allergy to the lub.
I Switched to lamb skin condoms and that solved my problems. Yes, they are more expensive but I am sure your girl is worth it.
Posted Mon Sep 03, 2012 10:01 AM
Good point, my wife is all about the quality of orgasm not the quantity, if we have sex for 15 or 20 minutes not counting foreplay or oral she's completely satisfied and not so sore that we can't have more fun at some other point in the day.
Posted Tue Sep 04, 2012 02:09 AM
Normaly she would have used the pills but she have tryed to get praignet 2times and the secound time she decided to keep the child, so in the start of our relationship we dident have to use protektion, but i wanted to use condums because i would like to wait a few years before having the next kid and sence the pills doesent really work on her i prefured condums.
And i do understand that she needs a whole body stimulation but she is stil unsecure about her boby from the birth and we are working on her getting confidens back. Its not like i just stick it in and pump away for 30mins, but it would just be nice to know why she feels pain. Sometimes we could be going for over an hour and she would have no issues enjoying it.
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Posted Sun Sep 09, 2012 09:03 PM
Could be latex, type of lube already on it, or maybe she's just that sensitive after giving birth. I know I had issues with sex again after giving birth. Things just felt weird. I tore and ended up with stitches down there, so scar tissue changed the way things feel, along with the body trying to return to normal again.
Talk with her doctor, see what the time frame is before having sex again. Maybe she just needs a few more weeks rest time.
Posted Mon Sep 10, 2012 02:18 AM
Lube is a good recommendation. If you're not used pre-lubed, give one a try.
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