Couple Swap - Who Initiates It?
Posted Fri Sep 14, 2012 11:22 PM
A little while ago we were invited back to another couples hotel room. They were older than us and were much more experienced swingers. It was getting pretty late and I was waiting for something to start, but we mostly just sat around eating and talking. I was getting tired and mostly just wanted to go home. We'd ask if they wanted to do anything and what they liked to do, but they didn't say much. My wife and I finally started having oral sex ourselves and they joined it.
The last time we were with a much more experienced couple the same thing happened. We sat around and talked until I suggested to the other husband that we trade seats. That he sit with my wife and I with his. Before I knew it him and my wife were in the other bedroom and his wife was naked going down on me.
I keep expecting more experienced couples to initiate things, but they never seem to to. Or do the more experienced couples like to wait until the newbies are ready? I've also been told that the ladies will initiate it, but that hasn't happened either.
What has everyone elses experiences been like? Who initiates things? Is it you or them? Him or her?
Posted Thu Nov 01, 2012 09:08 PM
Posted Fri Nov 02, 2012 12:02 PM
Posted Fri Nov 02, 2012 07:32 PM
Disclaimer: we've never done a full swap, so this is more of a general experience thing than specific to what you're asking. I think most experienced people will tend to pace themselves to the newbies.
Posted Wed Nov 14, 2012 09:34 AM
Posted Wed Nov 14, 2012 03:36 PM
We had another couple over for dinner and after we were all just talking with some mild kissing and touching going on with our respective partners.
At one point, my wife went to the bathroom and removed her panties and upon return gave semi-discreet but intentional flashes to our guests. this got me really hard and my hands started to wander more aggressively all over my wife. This heated up the mood of the room and we were shortly fooling around with our own partners pretty hot and heavy.
At one point, my wife was riding my cock and the other guy reached over to play with her tits and later pussy. He asked if that was cool and we both said yes. It really got going from there.