Getting into MMF for the first time
Posted Wed Sep 19, 2012 04:24 PM
New here and first post.
Pretty much stumbled into this site and thought I might find some advice, good stories and experiences from others.
I've fantasized about MMF/DP stuff since I've known about it and my sex life has been relatively boring so far. I've always wanted to spice it up, so now I'm going to.
Not too long ago I found another M who's quite like me except he's already had some experiences and now we're trying to get some threesomes going. Next weekend might be the first.
We're both pretty fit, good looking and completely straight guys and the aim is to focus on the girl. I know I'm going to get the biggest kicks out of hearing, feeling and seeing the girl get stuffed like never before, ~7 & ~7.5 inch dicks, and cum like crazy. DP is the other thing I'm completely obsessed about and absolutely must see how it feels for myself.
As to what I'm here for is mostly advice and insight about this.
Do girls usually want/expect DP out of MMF?
Is DP as fucking awesome as I expect it to be? For the guys, for the girl?
Do the guys usually cum in seconds after getting DP going? I'm definitely gonna want to do it a lot.
Any other advice for the first experience? I know I gotta try to be as relaxed as I can. Think I'll do fine at that. Not afraid of the other guy.
Please share some thoughts and experience. I know many here have some.
Also excuse my bad English, I'm Finnish.
Posted Wed Sep 19, 2012 04:26 PM
Posted Wed Sep 19, 2012 04:33 PM
So I have always wanted a MMF as well. I feel MFF is nasty in my opinion and someones left out unless the girl is bisexual which I am not.
Anyways... the first one was with my boyfriends friend. I felt very awkward at first, i guess it was more of the thought then actually attempting. But after the first few minutes I tried to clear my head and go with it. Let me just tell you that because they both were in it for me, it was 100457348 times better then I have ever expected!
It started as soon as I got out of the shower, my bf came in and was loving on me then shortly after his friend followed. They started grabbing my tits and rubbing my pussy until my bf finally shoved it in me. As he was fucking me I was sucking his friend and so on. While his friend was eating me out I was blowing my bf and he said he has never seen me so into sex in my entire life (and i LOVE sex!)
The only bad thing about it is he couldnt stay hard (because he was nervous as I was)
But while my bf was eating me out his friend was choking me while sucking my tits and that was one of the best experiences I can remember of that night, that along with him slapping my pussy as my bf was pounding it.
We then tried it again with a stranger (because i wanted someone i wouldnt have awkward encounters with later)
Well that guy could stay hard but i blew him first and he came so quick that he didnt have time to fuck me.
Needless to say Ive had a few MMF experiences, but sadly only my bf was doing the fucking.
Regardless, the first time was the best so far!!
I hope this helps you decide if you wanna, and if you do just remember to keep all hands on her
Posted Wed Sep 19, 2012 04:33 PM
oh I cant wait to hear this....
Posted Wed Sep 19, 2012 05:43 PM
Although I already am determined to go for it, now even more so.
I definitely want to focus on the girl and sure will keep all hands on her.
I want everyone to be able to let go and things to get out of hand a little. It has to be wild.
So you've never been DP'd yet? Would love to hear more about that.
Posted Thu Sep 20, 2012 01:03 AM
But that was 5 years ago and I'm hooked !!!! I have had MFM where the other guy does not want to do Dp or dvp and that's ok we all still have a great time
To me there is noting like Dp it's so amazing feels so good for me and the guys always enjoy the selfs ! But this would be a question to ask the girl about maybe before so things don't go wrong and everyone knows what to expect.
And with all the Dp action I have had, none of the guys get off that quick with Dp but I know I do over and over and over !
Posted Thu Sep 20, 2012 04:20 AM
Obviously we want for everyone to get a great experience and not force anything on the girl.
I so totally want the girl to let us DP and cum plenty and loud.
I'd love to hear more..
What about positions for DP what works and feels best?
Posted Fri Sep 21, 2012 10:50 AM
Posted Sun Sep 23, 2012 07:38 AM
You should ask unless she tells you she wants/expects it.
Yes. It is the most wonderful kind of sex that two men and one woman can have. We love it so much.
Not usually, but it happens. It is so exciting, and it is so exciting when one of the guys becomes overexcited and cums in seconds. Because you will do it a lot and recover for a second round, you shouldn't worry. We also do it as frequently as we can.
Please understand that it is quite intense for the woman, so go slowly at first and follow her cues. Apply great amounts of lube wherever necessary. Tease her holes first with your tongues and the heads of your cocks. We think you will enjoy dp so much.
Posted Sun Sep 23, 2012 07:49 AM
There are no bad positions for DP. Kandi's position is best for your or her first time we think.