How do you feel about masturbation? And how do you do it?
Posted Fri Sep 21, 2012 01:51 AM
It's like a means to get to orgasms, but orgasms aren't the best part of sex to me. Sure, they're nice, and we all want them, but the building up to it is still the best.
I prefer the path than the destination. I can have orgasms alone, but the whole sex thing, with partner(s), hands all over the place, bodies to smell, penis to explore, to touch, to rub against, mouth to kiss, moans to hear, warm and sexy things to lick and suck... it's so good! And for that, one needs a man.
I still masturbate, but it's never really satisfying. I miss a male body... or two.
I never use toys, because I don't like them. Anyway, they aren't a man!
Fantasizing about my friend helps to make it nicer, and if he's in the house, then it's quite good. But I think it's only because I know we're going to fuck, anyway.
But if it is a real lonely thing... no, not so nice.
Even cybering, after the thing is over and I've had my share of orgasms, most times I drive to a fuck buddy afterwards to have real sex. It's just not... complete, with computers and waves interposed.
And you? How do you feel about masturbation and how what do you do to make it a good experience?
Do you manage to make it as nice as real sex?
Posted Fri Sep 21, 2012 02:55 AM
Posted Fri Sep 21, 2012 02:59 AM
You "sound" so sexy, firstwanker!
Posted Fri Sep 21, 2012 03:01 AM
Posted Fri Sep 21, 2012 03:21 AM
Posted Fri Sep 21, 2012 03:23 AM
Posted Fri Sep 21, 2012 05:32 AM
My method depends on the mood I'm in.
I usually do it dry using one hand, sometimes two. But when I'm in the shower, I let warm water trickle down as I stroke it.
I also enjoy pushing myself to the edge of an orgasm and pausing for a bit to let myself recover before starting again. The
orgasms that follow after several times are intense. Other times I let myself ejaculate a little, and once it
stop flowing, it feels like I can have another one right after with a couple more strokes. If I do it well, I can have back to
back orgasms and let out a huge load. The feeling is mind blowing.
Posted Fri Sep 21, 2012 07:58 AM
Posted Fri Sep 21, 2012 09:03 AM
That being said, I agree with alien2 that the whole process is much better with a partner. An orgasm resulting from masturbation is satisfying, but the experience is more complete with a partner- when it includes kissing and cuddling and foreplay and teasing and all those wonderful things I can't really do to myself.
Posted Fri Sep 21, 2012 09:20 AM
Posted Fri Sep 21, 2012 12:41 PM
That's why it'll never be as exciting or as satisfying as sex with a partner. Even to be masturbated by someone else is better than solo- I can just focus on the feeling, and a partner brings that unpredictable quality, such as not knowing when or if she'll squeeze tighter or stroke slower; whether she'll blow air on me, press on my anus or prostate button or stop altogether, making me moan and almost beg for her to continue and end this delicious agony- although I hope she won't....