We have had a lot of things , like many couples, happen in their lives that prevent sexual happiness. Who would have known that something as simple as using a dildo in his butt would give us new outlook on ways of sexual satisfaction. We have discovered a new awareness of each others feelings and desires, nevermind I think it's a major turn on to do this to him.
If I would have known it was this simple to tame the beast, I would have done it long ago. It may not be traditional sex, but it has awakened our minds and bodies.
Have you tried anything different to wake up your sexual like and well being?