Spit or Swallow , What's The Big deal ?
Posted Mon Mar 10, 2008 10:04 PM
What does it matter what she does with it after she gets you off orally ?
I'm not asking this to razz on any1 , just curious , how big a deal is it to you guys what happens to your genetic milkshake after ya serve it up to her ?
Personally I could care less where it goes afterwards , I'm happy to just enjoy the afterglow >:] .
Posted Mon Mar 10, 2008 10:08 PM
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Posted Tue Mar 11, 2008 08:09 AM
He tells me that he likes to see his cum in my mouth but that he doesn't care either way about me swallowing it.
I kinda like to lick his stuff off my lips but I'm not into the facial aim-and-shoot thing, so sometimes I'll let some dribble out...he loves that too, supposedly it looks good against my skin tone too, he he
But honestly, he has told me time and time again that he really is happy with being intimate either way. So I think for me, psychologically this is very important...and it makes me want to explore more stuff with him, knowing that he's happy either way.
Posted Tue Mar 11, 2008 08:36 AM
I always knew there was a reason I liked her too!
Posted Tue Mar 11, 2008 08:50 AM
Posted Tue Mar 11, 2008 12:40 PM
The act of spitting implies that the subject matter is dirty and you dont want it in your system (which when speaking about sperm is totally understandable). But that makes the guy kind of feel a little bad, like the girl thinks parts of him are dirty and she needs to rid herself of him.
An example could be when a guy goes down on his woman, and if she does not smell like roses, he holds his nose while he gives her oral. Yes he is giving her oral, but yes his actions also imply that he is not totally happy about it for hygenic reasons. The act of holding his nose would make her feel so bad, that it would totally overshadow the good physical feeling he gave her through oral.
I am not saying this is how all guys feel, nor am I saying that this is a HUGE issue for guys, I am just saying that this is where I feel the base of the problem lies. I LOVE bjs, and my GF does not usually swallow- or spit for that matter, I have to come outside her mouth. It does not make me stop wanting BJs, but it has given me pleanty of time to come to terms with the issue, and realize that if I got to choose where I came, it would be in her mouth for her to swallow.
Posted Tue Mar 11, 2008 04:59 PM
Posted Tue Mar 11, 2008 05:52 PM
You brought up some interesting points. I'm curious about a few things.
You said: "The act of spitting implies that the subject matter is dirty and you dont want it in your system (which when speaking about sperm is totally understandable). But that makes the guy kind of feel a little bad, like the girl thinks parts of him are dirty and she needs to rid herself of him."
But I think that a majority of girls in long term relationships at some point allow guys to to cum in their pussy; doesn't this count for something as far as demonstrating that she doesn't think he is dirty...or that she is trying to rid her body of him?
Since I would say this (cumming inside her) is pretty much the norm, especially in married couples, why would the guy feel she is rejecting her man because she prefer not to swallow?
Taking your example of the less than fresh vagina; I don't think there is the expectation or at least a vocal one, for a guy to go down on a woman if he isn't happy with the hygiene situation. I know a lot of guys are troopers and they do, but usually this is considered her problem. Nor have I seen a poll about girls wanting their man to eat out an unhygienic vagina. I think most women would not expect this, nor would they consider it a rejection. They would just try to fix it...hence all of the trouble gals go thru to remove hair, etc.
Wouldn't a better example be of a guy who just for whatever reason doesn't like pussy juices?
Just a few thoughts. As I said above, I swallow for my hubby and we both like it, but it's not a big deal at all for him.
I totally understand the sexiness aspect of swallowing; but I'm a bit lost on the rejection aspect---since women are getting cummed in or cummed on anyway, at some point
Posted Tue Mar 11, 2008 07:52 PM
Posted Tue Mar 11, 2008 07:54 PM
mmm... keep talking =]