Anal Play: Too Far in & "bowel movement sensation"
Posted Thu Oct 25, 2012 10:39 AM
If memory serves, I believe some sources suggest keeping your finger at that point where she feels the sensation and just hold your finger there until the feeling subsides for her. And just keep doing that over until she is more comfortable with deeper penetration.
Posted Thu Oct 25, 2012 02:44 PM
Posted Fri Oct 26, 2012 06:52 AM
The best way to get past, or to understand the feelings better, is to simply take a dildo and go have some experimentation on your own. It's a lot less embarrassing, if something does develop and it also allows you to work with those feelings. It's also fun to learn.
Posted Sat Oct 27, 2012 06:51 AM
Posted Sat Oct 27, 2012 04:45 PM
Sorry, but that's just a really funny use of the wrong word right there!
Yes, I LOVE anal sex, and my boyfriend is eight inches long and a bit more than two inches thick, but I've never had or felt the urge for a BM when he's inside me. On top of that, he has incredible stamina, and is frequently inside me for 30-45 minutes at a time, and all I feel is a blissful fullness, a peace, a comfort, a sensual warmth from his cock stuffed balls-deep in my ass that pervades my entire body. More than anything, I feel like I was made to be his lover, and when his dick is inside me, that's where I'm meant to be, and I'd rather be nowhere else.
I do prepare myself well ahead of time, using an enema to make sure I'm squeaky clean inside, then a shower so I'm squeaky clean outside. I use a buttplug for about 30 minutes to stretch, relax, and limber myself up before we're together, so that when he's with me, he can - after at least a little kissing, fondling, cocksucking, "pussy" licking, and other foreplay - shove his dick into me and fuck my brains out as he pleases, without having to take the extra time for me to grow accustomed to his massive meat in my love tunnel. Don't worry, even after using a buttplug, I'm still plenty tight, and he just LOVES getting his big cock up my hole!
As I've posted before, anal sex usually goes one of three ways -
The receiving partner will experience physical and/or emotional discomfort, and just won't want to submit to it at all.
The receiving partner will not experience any pain or discomfort, but won't really get any sensual or sexual pleasure, gratification, or fulfillment from the act, but may continue to submit to anal penetration because he or she knows her partner enjoys fucking them in the ass.
The receiving partner will not experience any pain or discomfort, and will feel incredible sexual pleasure, gratification, and fulfillment from being fucked in the ass (this would be me), and will want to do it again and again (and again!) I was with my boyfriend a couple of weeks ago, and I brought him to four orgasms in less than three hours!
Posted Sun Oct 28, 2012 06:23 AM
I have to wonder though if anal gets such a bad rap since perhaps a lot of folks do not take the time up front to adequately prepare as she so well described in the post.
I don't think there is often the correct preparation and it just happens as a result of over anxiety between the sheets without any serious thought towards the consequences of not being properly prepared.