Intimacy issues not talking about sex
Posted Wed Nov 07, 2012 12:50 PM
Posted Wed Nov 07, 2012 07:44 PM
Posted Wed Nov 07, 2012 08:41 PM
I know what u mean, the other day i was on a date with a guy i ve know for more than two months and he started saying "i am so glad u came to my place" and i felt really scared so i changed the subject right away and ignored his comment....
Posted Thu Nov 08, 2012 04:36 PM
i understand, i am the same way. different issues have led me to be very quiet. my family doesnt share much at all either
Posted Fri Nov 09, 2012 11:10 AM
Posted Sun Nov 11, 2012 10:12 AM
as for sharin, i grew up with 3 bros who dont communicate well in heightened states of emotion and as a youngie (big age difference) told me to tuffen up when i cried. funny when we had a fam crisis, i wuz the strong one.
Posted Tue Nov 13, 2012 12:33 PM
I feel the same way...it takes a lot of time for me to get intimate or trust anyone
Posted Thu Nov 22, 2012 10:12 PM
This post has been edited by Jewel❤: Thu Nov 22, 2012 10:13 PM
Posted Fri Nov 23, 2012 10:12 AM
Posted Thu Dec 20, 2012 08:13 PM
Posted Sun Jan 06, 2013 01:31 PM
Posted Sun Jan 06, 2013 02:29 PM
I'm the same way. I have no issues with texting my feelings to a person but in person I feel there is a barrier between my brain and my mouth, with stops the words coming out of my mouth.
Posted Mon Jan 07, 2013 03:47 AM
My feelings are the same as yours. In my warped mind there are no such things as friends and love they are just words its easy for people to say i love you and your my best friend!!!
MY motto is TRUST NO ONE!!!
And no i don't open up and tell anyone what goes through my mind
Posted Thu Jan 10, 2013 08:51 PM
Posted Thu Mar 07, 2013 05:50 PM
Posted Fri Mar 08, 2013 11:17 AM
I'm the complete opposite in emotional closeness. I never stop talking, and I want them to talk to me and be open about anything with me,
as far as family members go, of course you can't be open and tell them everything about your private life, but we are all very open with each other about ourselves and talk a lot.
Posted Mon Jun 17, 2013 02:55 PM