Anal sex For anal lovers
Posted Thu Nov 29, 2012 03:15 PM
Posted Thu Nov 29, 2012 03:59 PM
Posted Thu Nov 29, 2012 04:11 PM
No, just wondering due to experience with past girlfriends
Posted Fri Nov 30, 2012 06:35 AM
As I said, though, this is all second-hand information. Anyone with better experience, feel free to correct me
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Posted Fri Nov 30, 2012 07:59 AM
Posted Fri Nov 30, 2012 08:04 AM
Come on, out with it!
Posted Fri Nov 30, 2012 10:44 AM
Posted Fri Nov 30, 2012 03:32 PM
So, am I "loose?" Hardly! I can clamp down on him and lock his cock in me so tightly he'll nearly pass out with pleasure. I've even left purple bruise rings on his dick on a few occasions.
An anal sex virgin will probably feel some discomfort, and perhaps even pain. Some of this is simply because they are being opened and penetrated for the first time. If you are introducing your lover to anal sex, as the penetrating partner, there are things you can do to minimize or even eliminate any pain or discomfort, and make the act of anal intercourse pleasurable for both of you.
First, anal sex isn't the best act for those spontaneous sessions. It's always best if the receiving partner has the opportunity to prepare. This entails voiding well, and rinsing out with a simple warm water enema a few times. Being clean - inside and out - will help the receiving partner be more relaxed, knowing nothing unpleasant will happen. Rinsing the rectum, however, also washes away much of the natural mucous lubrication, so use a good-quality lubricant, and use plenty of it. After I rinse out, I use a child's medicine dosage syringe to pump a generous teaspoon or so of Astroglide gel inside me a few minutes before I join my boyfriend in bed, for an added measure of lubrication. Yes, before he fucks me, either he or I will lube up his big cock thoroughly, and as he enters me, he'll also spread that additional dosage of lube throughout my rectum, making my love tunnel slick and sexy.
I also prepare ahead of time, after I've rinsed out, by pushing a buttplug up my ass, slipping it in and out several times over a few minutes, then wearing it around for 10 or 15 minutes. This helps considerably in stretching and relaxing the inner and outer sphincters, preparing them to accept penetration more easily and comfortably. This isn't really a requirement, and I don't do it always, but I know some days my man just has that animal need to shove his dick into me and empty his balls in my "pussy" the moment he sees me. By preparing myself this way, he's perfectly free to stuff he cock up my ass and pound away with little or no foreplay, and I'm perfectly comfortable - indeed, I'm in heaven - with his magnificent meat plowing me!
For an anal virgin, though, I would recommend skipping the buttplug or dildo, and going straight to breaking that cherry - gently and lovingly - with the penetrating partner's cock. That will make that first act of anal intercourse so much more intimate and memorable.
So, what is a guy who really wants to get his dick up his girl's - or his guy's - virgin ass to do?
First, let's start with position. One of the best to start with is missionary. With a pillow under the receiver's ass to get some elevation, and her (we'll assume for now it's a woman) legs spread high and wide, the pelvic floor is naturally opened and relaxed in this position. Another good position for beginners is cowgirl; she can sit on your cock and be in control of how much and how fast she takes it. Doggie is not the best position for an anal newbie.
Now she's in bed and ready for you. She's got her legs spread high and wide, with her ankles behind her head (you lucky son of a bitch), her bare pussy is dripping, and her cute little asshole is just begging for your big cock. What do you do?
If you shove your dick up her ass and start banging away, she'll probably hate every minute of it, your cock will never again enjoy the blissful, warm confines of your girl's tight butt, and you might even get hit with a restraining order!
Take her slowly, gently, and lovingly. Lube up your cock thoroughly, and gently press against her hole. It helps here if she consciously relaxes her sphincters to let you in. As you slip into her, her muscular rings will stretch around your cock, and she will feel a sting, or a burn, not unlike the burn you feel when you stretch any muscle. DON'T attempt full penetration yet! Listen to her, and do what she says. If she wants you out, pull your cock out of her. Your goal - for both of you - is to get the muscle to stretch, to relax, and to accept your cock. After holding an inch or two of your cock in her for a few seconds, pull out, and let her relax. After 10 or 15 seconds, when she's ready, push into her again. She will again feel that sting as your cock stretches her asshole. Hold it in her, then pull out and let her relax again. Be patient, and gentle, and repeat this several times over a few minutes, and she will reward you. When she's relaxed and ready, you'll push into her, and she won't feel that sting anymore. She'll feel a wonderful and sensual warmth as you slowly fill her, and you'll both be ready to enjoy the ecstasy of anal sex. She's ready for you to start fucking her at this stage, and she shouldn't feel any pain or discomfort.
Now that she's "broken in," and she feels pleasure with your cock buried in her butt, you can move on to different positions (LOVE doggie!) and different stroking techniques. A personal favorite of mine - LOVE "long-stroking" - boyfriend pulls out until only the cockhead is inside, or pulls out all the way (for advanced bottoms), then shoves his entire length balls-deep back in me, and repeat; the incredible sensations of being achingly empty to blissfully stuffed, over and over again, are deliciously mind-blowing!
That's about it! Enjoy anal sex with your girl!
Posted Fri Nov 30, 2012 10:28 PM
Posted Sat Dec 01, 2012 06:01 AM
Posted Sun Dec 02, 2012 02:50 AM
You rock! I'm very fond of your steaming sexuality. I'd love to be there, sucking your cock while he slams on you.
Now, answering the OP, I enjoyed anal from day one. It did hurt a little when he was coming inside for the first time, but I didn't mind. It's so damn good!
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Posted Sun Dec 02, 2012 05:38 PM
Mmmmm, I'd LOVE for you to be there, too! To have you sucking my cock while my boyfriend pounds his big dick up my ass would be heaven! Eventually, he wants to invite a third male to bed with us. He wants me to have that MMM threesome experience, and in particular, he wants to see me made "airtight!" A cock down my throat while he fucks me in the ass! And I - eventually - would love to have the experience of topping another man, and if I get the opportunity to be in the middle of a three-man buttfuck, even better! But for now, he just wants to keep me all to himself!
And Alien, read my blog! LOTS of steaming sex there!
Posted Sun Dec 02, 2012 06:26 PM
I personally don't like being fingered but a dildo is good for relaxation.
Lots of good quality lube and patience is needed.
Posted Sat Dec 08, 2012 04:29 PM
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