To cam or not to cam! Whats the taboo around cybering
Posted Tue Dec 04, 2012 12:53 PM
First of all let me just say I FUCKING LOVE this site!!!!
This is literally the most horny sex positive web site I've ever cum across (scuse the dreadful pun kind of felt it fitting),
What is with the reluctance for peeps to cam2cam?
Personally Im in a bit of an odd sexless relationship, which would be pretty soul destroying if not for a few amazing friends online who bring me a lot of joy via the medium of Skype ect.
I'd like to think its a two way thing as well, they certainly seem to get a lot of happiness out of the exchange!
Personally I find it such a turn on to be able to connect with random horny women all around the globe, bypass all the bullshit which can go along with dating and just get down to the nitty gritty (although obviously I love to connect mentally/emotionally - which can be an important part of the experience).
Theres something so hot about jumping through the rabbit hole into a strangers bedroom + its totally safe - if they piss you off for any reason all it takes is one click to exit the scenario.
So I'm just wondering why 90percent of the women on here are anti cam2cam,
I appreciate there are a lot of fuck heads out there who violate the trust given and record the girls they cyber with (which is so beyond fuct I genuinely cannot fathom where they're heads are at), but surely that applies exactly the same to all the (amazing) photo's y'all share.
Is it a power thing? I guess posting photos is 100% under the control of the poster, whereas camming, exposes a certain vunerability?
Maybe its a distrust of the potential partners - a fat sweaty bloke grunting away while you try and jam out with your clam out would obviously be a bit of a turn off!
Maybe Im being really naive, and actually just need to get some better photos up and work on my charm game!
What do you think folks, obviously Id never hassle or pressure anyone, but Id love to hear from anyone who has an opinion on away or another, better yet Id love to meet some women who are open to connecting! (but maybe thats for a different post!)
peace and chicken grease Amorx
Posted Tue Dec 04, 2012 01:45 PM
Cam2Cam you cant take anything back, what is shown is shown. in the past i have had nasty pm's and stuff asking why i dont cam and show myself. simple fact is, i dont feel comfortable in my own skin to go on cam and maybe a chance of showing something i dont like.
Obviously its better to kind of be attracted to the person you are camming to, and if they appeal to you, sometimes its the pressure of having to cum a given time or so on.
I feel more comfortable shutting my cam off and have sound if i am masturbating...like ive done a few times in chat in the past.
I feel envious of the women/men who do show everything, and i hope that one day i will feel comfortable in my skin, even if i still dont cam.
I have had 2 cam2cam moments in the past, where i just showed my face, never down there, and the other time, it wasnt sexual at all, we just laughed and talk about stuff.
the power thing....well i feel more in control when i post pictures, than if im on cam as i dont show anything i dont want to, it gets deleted before another set of eyes look upon it lol.
Posted Tue Dec 04, 2012 02:44 PM
That said, obviously its down to the individual and how they feel about themselves, its not my place to tell anyone how they should or shouldn't feel, you seem really self aware and happy, so good for you!
Your experiences sound pretty cool, its interesting cos a couple of girls Ive cammed with went the opposite and showed all but their face (which honestly was weird - maybe its just me but a headless set of boobs can sorta resemble a sesame street character!)
Good to here you also had a laugh with ur partner, ultimately (IMHO) the experience should be about connections and chemistry!
I'd still love to hear from anyone else who's had experiences or got strong feelings either way!
Posted Tue Dec 04, 2012 03:51 PM
Posted Thu Dec 06, 2012 03:28 AM
On the net, people do things they wouldn't do in real life, like stealing. I already had something stolen from me here, by otherwise nice men.
I think you can either talk about yourself, or give a bit of your image.
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Posted Thu Dec 06, 2012 04:22 AM
honestly though, most women on here will probably get asked to cyber by like 10 guys every time they're online, and when they do feel like it they can only really do one guy at a time, which means 9 of those 10 will miss out. it's not always that women don't want to cam, but it's just that they're outnumbered. plus i've seen so many guys come in and ask "hey, wanna cyber" with no interaction with them beforehand and i just don't understand why they would think i would want to. i think a lot of newcomers assume that because we're women on a sex site we are down for absolutely anything whenever someone feels like it but people deserve that amount of respect that you would give a stranger in person.
but now camming and cybering with people i only know online doesn't appeal to me at all. i just don't do it at all and tbh i think it's better for me this way. it just wasn't working with my personality
Posted Tue Jan 01, 2013 07:28 PM
there are a few sites that i go on: (Edit).
if anyone knows of any others like these, be grateful to hear about them.
not done any skyping though.
This post has been edited by White.Rabbit: Tue Oct 14, 2014 06:30 AM
Posted Tue Jan 01, 2013 10:32 PM
Posted Wed Jan 02, 2013 02:10 AM
I love to cyber and see when she gets horny looking me.