How to best find a way to lose one's virginity
Posted Wed Dec 19, 2012 12:05 AM
Posted Wed Dec 19, 2012 12:17 AM
Posted Wed Dec 19, 2012 12:23 AM
...But maybe that's just me!
Posted Wed Dec 19, 2012 12:58 AM
My only advice would be not to get too worked up about getting rid of it like it's a bad cold.... I'd be more concerned about finding a girl I felt connected to and just let whatever happens happen. Oh, and toss a condom in your backpack, dresser, w/e. Don't assume you'll never need one just to find out you do and don't have one!
Posted Wed Dec 19, 2012 01:01 AM
Previous posters told you "wait" but I would say don't. This is not to say you should jump the first girl you lay your eyes on, not at all. Your first sexual experience is not a bus or a train with a well established schedule so you can go to the station and 'wait' to catch one. On the other hand mind frame of 'waiting' is not healthy or beneficial for you in many different ways. You wait and wait, nothing happens, and in the process you lose patience and get frustrated. Which doesn't help really. So what you should do is to stop 'waiting' and think of losing your virginity. Which, I know, is easier said than done. But more you think of it it becomes more of a 'problem' which will eventually get you so frustrated that you might not be able to recognize the chance to end your 'wait' when the opportunity present itself. Just don't push it, it will happen when it does happen. Forcing it won't make it happen any sooner.
Now, I think you have a bigger 'problem' on your hands than losing your virginity. You say that you're 21 but haven't had a girlfriend so far. Not something very common for your age but not unheard of either. What I would suggest would be for you to start working on this 'problem' first. You never had one because you're shy with girls, you don't know how to approach them, you generally lack confidence, whatever. You have to sort out these 'problems' first, and everything else will fall in place on its own.
Note me using the word 'problem' in quotes. That's because none of these are the real problems, just perceived as such. They happen more often and to more people than is often realized. But there are solutions for them, they can be solved with commitment and effort.
Now, failing all this you can always resort to services of an escort. They are professionals who know what they are doing and will do their best to make your experience as enjoyable as possible. If you explain your situation you might find yourself getting the extra treatment. ;-)
Posted Wed Dec 19, 2012 07:31 AM