In the past Ive always been reluctant to get too into it because I thought I am wasting time which could be better spent finding a real partner.
So I wonder what other ppl think on the matter.
Of course real sex is always gonna be number one but ive been thinking exploring my own body solo could also be an aid for when i am with a partner as having done so ill be more in touch with what i like so can have 'educational' purposes i guess and I could tell them what Im into and we share that.
Also as per the title do you always fantasize about someone or can you enjoy a toy as a pleasure in and of itself? Im still undecided on this as I dont have enough experience on the issue so interested to hear how it works for other ppl.
I think that it could become a crutch if you are a virgin and only used toys instead of seeking out real relationships but since i have sex 'now and then' (not as much as Id like) i wonder if it can be enjoyed as a little pleasure to relax when nothing else is around- im thinking such things could be more healthy than taking some substance (drugs etc) to relax or enjoy oneself.
what do others think?
This post has been edited by assaddict: Wed Dec 19, 2012 09:01 AM