Long story short, Neither my wife or my friends wife will give us bjs anymore. He and I talked about how things have changed how we are both still horny and our wives can't or don't want to do it with us. He was never really shy and came out and said " I'll suck yours, if you suck mine". No hugging, no kissing or anything like that, just a bj. Consider it physical therapy. We are in our 60s and we both feel it doesn't matter at this point in our lives. Why not?
Would you take him up on it?