Posted Fri Dec 21, 2012 02:48 PM
I seem to never get off by treating girls nicely, i dont know why but i get bored and easily distracted if i go by the books and be gentle. what does that say about me? i love the adrenaline i get and how girls submit when treated (not necessarily poorly) but as if their opinion doesn't matter, i dont know ive tried to be nice but it wouldn't even get me hard but other times meeting girls similar to me and with the same manners as i would like things to be , things escalated pretty quickly and intensely... what can you tell me about this and about my preception? Cheerios
Posted Fri Dec 21, 2012 04:20 PM
Perhaps look into the BDSM/Kink scene a bit more? Sadism, Masochism, Masters and slaves etc.
Posted Fri Dec 21, 2012 05:37 PM
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Posted Sat Dec 22, 2012 06:31 PM
Besides, inside the playful banter, you can still be honest: 'I want to have a good time, and I won't promise anything that I can't or won't deliver', instead of 'I will say and do anything to get you on you back with me inside you'.
That's not treating women badly, that's being straight up; any woman who has a problem with it needs to figure out why she's really in a bar, wearing F-me pumps and drinking Cosmos on Friday night...