safe sex... but oral
Posted Sun Jan 13, 2013 07:49 PM
My question. Condoms are a must for any penetration, but what about oral, and blow jobs? my MR said he woudn't perform oral on her, but i'm sure she'll be disappointed if he doesn't, and guys expect a blow job right? If my mr expects to get one, i'll be expected to give one on the other guy.
I really don't want to suck a condom, did it a long time ago, hated it.
What should i be worried about with oral sex? same as vaginal diseases? what about swallowing the other guys pre cum, and cum? I see most ladies on here say "condoms are a must", but then seem to not have issues with oral.
I'm definitly NOT a stranger to sex, and aware of possible STDs, but i've been with the same guy for over 20 years (prob why we want to start swinging also). Just have some questions.
Thanks in advance
Posted Sun Jan 13, 2013 07:55 PM
Posted Sun Jan 13, 2013 08:52 PM
Posted Mon Jan 14, 2013 08:31 PM
then theres dental dams.
Posted Tue Jan 15, 2013 05:39 AM
Just make sure that you feel good with the things you are gonna do,...and don't flip out after. I wish the both of you a hell of a horny evening. And don't feel pressure on these sort of things. I would rather have myself sucked by a relaxed and secure girl with a condom on, than without and see the girl stress or not being at ease.
Posted Sat Jan 19, 2013 08:03 PM
I'm trying to get them to join us at a dance / burlesque style club to help everyone relax, and possible start things going abit further back to the hotel. Even if it's same room sex, and just soft play swap.
Never done this before, VERY secure with our relationship, and looking to try new things as a couple.
Just don't know where to start since we've been married for 13 years, and together for just over 20.
Definitly will try the flavored condoms, and try them on my hubby to see what ones suite my taste before the big day of adding someone else with us.
Posted Sun Jan 20, 2013 04:41 PM