What do/should I wear to a swingers club? Happening this Saturday
Posted Wed Jan 23, 2013 01:35 AM
Need a little help from either male (considering some of you males have been) or females for sexy outfit to a sexy lifestyle club like this. Maybe load a pic for me to see?
Posted Wed Jan 23, 2013 01:58 AM
Posted Wed Jan 23, 2013 09:12 AM
Posted Wed Jan 23, 2013 09:17 AM
The dress in the picture above would be great.
Posted Wed Jan 23, 2013 09:46 AM
Posted Wed Jan 23, 2013 09:48 AM
It is limited; but yes a few are allowed in the club where we go. They have to stay at the bar unless a couple invites them to their table or to a playroom.
Posted Wed Jan 23, 2013 09:52 AM
Posted Wed Jan 23, 2013 10:37 AM
Years ago I went to one (single) on the invite of a couple I new. It was upscale in Beverly Hills. Like Chelle said, you hang at the bar until you are approached. I was fortunate that this couple was very popular so I was invited to the play area. Had I just arrived with no connections, I don't think I would have faired as well since the other guys there were in my opinion much better looking. But that was a long time ago... ;-)
Posted Wed Jan 23, 2013 11:19 AM
Not very often. A few times a year.
Posted Wed Jan 23, 2013 03:25 PM
Edit: forgot to add- have a great time!
This post has been edited by FireflyBiGirl: Wed Jan 23, 2013 03:27 PM
Posted Thu Jan 24, 2013 02:52 AM
Posted Thu Jan 24, 2013 10:29 AM
Where I live, that's what all women wear in swingers clubs.
Posted Fri Jan 25, 2013 11:40 PM
And the club we're going to on Saturday the 26th, they have private rooms with one bed in it, and they have swingers room with two beds in it - makes sense. There are lounge areas....the one rule I don't like is that we can't bring in our cell phones. I have no idea why? Anyone know? And how come swinger clubs don't provide alcohol - we have to bring our own, but they provide us basic mixers. I imagine orange juice, cranberry, other juices, sodas, etc.
Hoping my bf and I will have lots of flirty, touchy fun!
Posted Sat Jan 26, 2013 12:31 AM
Have a great time and let us know how it went.
Posted Sun Jan 27, 2013 04:01 AM
the one rule I don't like is that we can't bring in our cell phones. I have no idea why? Anyone know?
If cell phones were allowed, you'd find pictures of yourself having sex there on facebook and the like. Some people don't care, but most do. One thing is to upload something you've decided to upload, another completely different is to have pictures of you taken against your will and made public.
It's the same when you skype with people. They take snapshots, or record you against your will and from then on, your image is theirs to use as they please. Some people don't care, but most do.
Even if you were taking a picture of yourself there, perhaps, in the background, somebody who'd like to keep his/her privacy would be in it, too, against his/her will.
I never accept mobile phones in places where I'll have sex with other people. In my own house, I have a basket at the hall and my fuck buddies already know they are supposed to leave their gsm/smartphones there and to only take them back on their way out. When I go to their places for sex, the same: everybody leaves the phones off and out. By now, we trust each other, since we've been fucking for some time together, but we still keep the tradition. Also, it is impolite to interrupt a good thing happening live for the sake of answering a call.
And remember that thing they researched about once: you're only 6 or 7 people away from anyone in the world.
Now, about the alcohol, I find it odd. Here in Belgium it is always an all inclusive thing. Alcohol and food are provided and are included in the fee to enter. Couples pay upwards from 50 euros and single men upwards from 90 euros. Single women can go in for free, mostly, or pay a small fee.
Posted Mon Jan 28, 2013 06:22 PM
Assuming you went... how was it?! :-)
Posted Tue Jan 29, 2013 04:10 PM
I like wearing things I will net stress out about if they wind up in a rumpled pile someplace even though most nicer places have a place to hang up your clothes. I hate to sound cheap but I also tend tp prefer something washable, so a man made fiber works best.