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Posted Wed Feb 06, 2013 01:28 PM
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Posted Wed Feb 06, 2013 04:49 PM
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Posted Wed Feb 06, 2013 07:44 PM
Was it an old profile he was checking on for shits and giggles? Was the profile started after you two became an item? How far into your relationship are you? If you're still new he may still be keeping the profile active, "just in case".
As others have noted, you're probably going to have to have an honest, calm, and non-judgemental chat about it.
Posted Wed Feb 06, 2013 11:07 PM
Posted Thu Feb 07, 2013 01:30 PM
Posted Thu Feb 07, 2013 02:34 PM
1.) You're going to have to contend with that he was on there searching. There's no undoing it. You're going to come to a point where you're going to either leave him or keep him. That's it.
2.) An honest convo on this is hardly possible. He was looking for poon on a dating site. There's really nothing more to be explained. I mean, what could you be possibly looking for him to say? If you had an honest discussion about it at this point, there's nothing you'd learn that you haven't already learned.
3.) If you're trolling the internet looking for tracks from your bf, you're relationship is in even worse shape than you think. Why are you trolling the internet for your bf? (that's rhetorical, you're not supposed to answer that.) Whatever the reason is, it's a symptom of a problem. That problem wont be solved, it'll be accepted by you or it will be rejected by you.
Again, an honest convo sounds like it's the right thing to do, and there's no harm in having it...but what do you think you're going to learn? You know he's on the site...and there's only one reason he'd be doing that. If he's had the profile for two years, he's either tapped some strange ass or tried his damnedest but hasn't only because none of them were willing. I mean, that's it. 2 years on a site to find chicks, and he's been active within the last 24 hours....He's on there, he's searching for some sex, and in 2 years, he's either had it or hasn't only because other chicks said 'no'....
What else is there to know?
Posted Fri Feb 08, 2013 07:48 AM
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