Need help about a friend of mine?
Posted Fri Feb 22, 2013 01:46 AM
Posted Fri Feb 22, 2013 02:38 AM
Posted Fri Feb 22, 2013 04:38 AM
2.) You're not texting. "abt" is just being plain lazy. If you're about to waste people's time with a simple question like this (I'll explain why it's simple in a moment), you can at least show us the courtesy of fucking typing like someone with an I.Q. that isn't in the single digits. You want people to make suggestions or offer insight and advice? Then don't type something that looks like it needs a decoder from a children's cereal box to decipher.
3.) Here's the advice: You issue isn't complex, it's ridiculously simple: You've been friend-zoned. Sounds like you've been there from the start. You're the archetype guy friend that the chick doesn't wanna have sex with but wants to share all her feelings and opinions with. Guys like you do other guys a HUGE favor. They get to bang her while she talks your ear off with all the shit her bf/hubby really doesn't care to hear.
While it is possible that she told you about the boob-and-poon piercing to get a rise out of you, it's pretty obvious that she has no romantic inclinations towards you. Yeah, her husband is treating all 10 shades of bad. Guess what? That's probably why she's into him. And you're wanting to be the ear for her to vent to and the shoulder for her to cry on, thinking it'll make her realize how much she should want you.
But, and I'm the pentultimate asshole for saying this, often times women have some bizarre intrigue with men who don't like them. She's withdrawn from you and not her husband, in light of the fact that he doesn't like all types of shit about her and you love it.
In summation: If she's not responding to you the way you want, move on. She's with the person she wants to be with. Go find another chick...or chicks.
This post has been edited by ilyushin: Fri Feb 22, 2013 04:42 AM
Posted Fri Feb 22, 2013 05:03 AM
You're obsessed with something you can't have and never had to start with. Instead of waiting for her to realize how great and right guy for her you are (hell would froze up sooner than that) you better wake up, smell the coffee, and move on.
This post has been edited by SirFoggy: Fri Feb 22, 2013 05:06 AM
Posted Fri Feb 22, 2013 05:42 AM
Posted Fri Feb 22, 2013 10:07 AM
Posted Fri Feb 22, 2013 10:54 AM
unless they like a threesome or you have his and her permission I wouldn't do anything.
sex should be about having fun ,not lying and cheating on people.
This post has been edited by sexyfantasygirl: Fri Feb 22, 2013 10:56 AM
Posted Fri Feb 22, 2013 12:04 PM
they continue to stand there and never see it coming.
Posted Sat Feb 23, 2013 08:13 AM
im still her friend, and i am there to talk to her and be her friend...and only her friend
if she got married..yeah i would still be her friend, but face facts that she aint the one for me
so either suck it up, chalk it up to experience and be just a friend...or just cut ties with her and move on if you cant trust yourself to be just a friend
yes friendzone sucks...but at least you still are friends. if you cant handle that, see above
if you can...be her friend, but know that is all it will ever be most likely
Posted Sun Feb 24, 2013 12:37 PM
Posted Sun Feb 24, 2013 10:30 PM
This post has been edited by Horneydawg13: Sun Feb 24, 2013 10:31 PM
Posted Thu Feb 28, 2013 07:43 AM
Cause she is married now! Maybe her husband has expressed his ideas that he doesn't want her hanging around you anymore. And considering you are waiting for her marriage to fail so you can swoop in I don't blame him. I'm going to give tough love and tell you that this is pathetic. Let. It. Go. So many other women out there and you are going to waste your time on a woman who clearly doesn't want to be with you. Otherwise she either wouldn't have gotten married or she'd still be hanging around you. The fact that she cut off ties should tell you she either doesn't need you in her life anymore or she doesn't want you in it and maybe because she could sense your feelings were not strictly platonic.
Posted Sun Mar 03, 2013 07:07 PM
While you are "waiting it out" you could miss out on the love of your life. It may hurt but let go and move on. Think of the opporunities you could be missing.
I believe that there is someone for everyone. But you have to be in the game. Move on my freind.
I am not trying to be cruel or rude, but please open your eyes.