Have you grown in your sexual relationship? Did you keep up...or fall behind?
Posted Tue Mar 05, 2013 05:13 AM
As your relationship grew over time...did you fall into the all so easy comfort zone - sexually and otherwise.., kept to the sex that works or did you move on, experimented more, tried new things, shake the old cage a little and challenged yourself and your partner to try maybe something new and out of the norm?
Or are still stuck in your comfort zone and not sure how to deal with it?
Me and my wife was like this - we had our "normal" routine or variations of it, but we never tried new things that could challenge us both sexually, and as time passed I became more and more frustrated as I felt I was the only one "interested" in sex and expanding our horizons. Till one day during an argument I raised my frustration (obvious not the right way to go about it) and insulted my wife by telling her shes boring in bed...and I wanted more...
She was very upset about the whole thing and asked me what I wanted......and to my surprise , she was all the while fantasizing about the same things I wanted..and just did not want to "insult" me by asking for it...
So we sat on both sides with the same longings and not the guts to open up to each other....and waisted valuable time..
Today were open to what we want to do and what we want .......and what a revelation....I have a new and exiting wife....which blows my socks off...
So if you are still stuck........talk to your other half...you will be surprised...
Just do not do it as I did.....lol
And enjoy each other!!!!!!
Posted Sat Mar 09, 2013 11:07 AM
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Posted Sat Mar 09, 2013 01:15 PM
"I'm just not wired like you I guess"
"I'm just not into doing anything else"
"I've done more with you than anyone else"
And the most famous:
"I'm trying, I really am"
We seem to have fallen into a routine and I want out of it. I guess it comes down to the fact that I'm a little more worldly and one that is willing to try almost anything once and if I like it, I'll do it again and again. She's much more conservative and likes familiarity which is kind of strange since she is a recipe freak that's always trying new dishes out of the umpteen cookbooks she has in our kitchen. And yes, I've used the recipe analogy more than once and I usually get a blank stare back or a "I don't get what you mean". :scratch:src="http://www.sexforums.com/public/style_emoticons/default/icon_scratch.gif">
Posted Thu Mar 14, 2013 10:04 AM
Posted Thu Mar 14, 2013 06:15 PM
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