Married but bi-curious...how do I approach this?
Posted Wed Jun 11, 2008 06:09 PM
Dh and I have a great relationship...sex is good with him, sometimes GREAT, minus the fact that he never eats my pussy. But I still just can't shake the desire to wanna experience what it would be like with another female.
I've mentioned this before to dh...that females really get me all hot and horny but I don't know if he has really taken me seriously or if he thought I was just caught up in the moment.
I actually think that I wanna talk to him about me being with another female but I'm not sure how to approach the subject without him feeling like he's not good enough.
Any thoughts/suggestions or anything really that you have to say please I'd appreciate it!
Posted Wed Jun 11, 2008 08:00 PM
Posted Wed Jun 11, 2008 09:52 PM
I swear for 28yrs. old sometimes he shocks me with how shy and uncomfortable he can be when it comes to talking about sex. I know that he hasn't been with many women in comparison to the amount of guys that I was with before him but if he just let loose a little imagine the amount of fun we could be having!
8yrs. later and I'm just getting the naughty side in him to come out...better late than never I guess.
I think I'll ease into it...don't wanna scare him or anything. But that would be so hot if he was ok with it. hmmmm.
Posted Thu Jun 12, 2008 10:02 PM
The fact of the matter is, you'll never know if you don't ask. So I think you should just have that convo with him, and make sure he knows you're serious about it. The fact that he never goes down on you kinda concerns me though.. are you just doing this cause he doesn't get you off and you want to be with someone who does? If thats the case, you should work on THAT issue with him first and see how that goes. If you just love women's bodies and want to know what its like to be with one.. well then, go for it! It's something he'll never forget.
Posted Thu Jun 19, 2008 05:14 AM
Posted Thu Jun 19, 2008 09:45 AM
Posted Fri Jun 20, 2008 06:02 PM
What I'm wondering is, do I really want to go down on a woman, or is that just because he wont go down on me and I can't separate me making someone cum and someone doing that to me in my head? Maybe it's the same for you?
I could probably tell him my thoughts on thinking about me trying it, but he'd never accept me doing it.