Explorin my ass
Posted Thu Apr 04, 2013 04:41 PM
Posted Fri Apr 05, 2013 10:59 AM
Precum is only good for about half a minute and I don't know about Vaseline as iv never used it for that purpose but best thing I could suggest is a good water based lube
Posted Sun Apr 07, 2013 10:14 AM
I USED VASELINE FOR YEARS, STILL DO OCCASIONALLY , PLUS SIDE I RECON IT HANGS ON LONGER THAN WATER BASE OR SILICON BUT IT IS MESSY. LATELY I HAVE GONE MORE FOR THE SILICON BECAUSE IT DOESN'T SEEM TO STAIN ANY THING. I HAVE BEEN STICKING FINGERS AND TOYS UP MY ASS FOR A LONG TIME ,I LIKE BUTT PLUGS BECAUSE WHEN YOU PUT IT IN IT WILL STAY IN, WHERE THINGS LIKE DILDO'S ARE OK IF YOU CAN STICK THEM TO SOME THING AND RIDE THEM THEY WON'T STAY IN IF YOU PUSH THEM IN , I CAN GET THEM TO STAY IN BY PUSHING THEM IN BALLS FIRST BUT AS I SAID I HAVE BEEN FUCKING MY ASS WITH THEM FOR A LONG TIME. I HAVE A DILDO STUCK TO THE BATH ROOM WALL AND ITS WAITING FOR ME TO BACK UP TO IT,SO BETTER GO AND HAVE A RIDE. HOPE THIS HELPS,GOOD LUCK, PEELER.
Posted Sun Apr 07, 2013 06:12 PM
Posted Sat May 04, 2013 12:54 AM
Posted Sun May 19, 2013 12:42 PM
You need lube and lots of it.
Here is a short tutorial I typed up a while back. It's how *I* learned..
The key to this is to take your time and go slow. You learn how to control your butt and sphincter muscles. You learn how to RELAX THEM and you get used to the feeling of it all.
Anal play for beginners
Disclaimer: I am NOT a doctor and I do NOT play one on TV. This is the way *I* learned how to discover anal play. As usual care needs to be practiced. GO VERY SLOWLY.
First start off with a TRIMMED index finger. You may even want to put on a latex glove first to help make it even smoother. Use KY or the drug store brand of KY and lube the finger well. Place it VERY GENTLY near the anus and lightly circle the hole with the finger. DON'T INSERT YET. Just circle it for a few minutes. After a few minutes without insert, just put the finger over the anus and gently press a bit without entering. Just apply a bit of pressure.
Do this over and over a few times and after a few minutes SLOWLY begin to insert JUST THE FINGER *TIP* in about a quarter of an inch then take it out. Do this a few times then go a LITTLE further in. Repeat this until you have you whole finger in. DO NOT FORCE IT, IF HE OR SHE OR YOU SAYS STOP, STOP!
Within a week or so of trying this the person should be fairly used to the finger and inserting and pumping it in and out should become easy. Also try moving the finger around while inserted, back & forth,etc. Orgasms ARE VERY VERY INTENSE when you leave your finger or butt plug or dildo in.
Soon you will want to try something slightly bigger than your finger. Try your middle finger or graduate to a SMALL butt plug. Same rules apply to the new toy as did with the finger. Start off using the finger as usual then after getting loose begin with the plug.
Plugs have flared bottoms to prevent them from going all the way in. If you graduate to dildos later get ones with a flared base or ones that have the balls at the bottom. This prevents them from slipping all the way in. You don't need a trip to the ER to retrieve it, that would SUCK!
After a while you will become very used to anal play and you won't need much time to prep for your session. You'll loosen up very quickly after you learn how to relax your anal muscles. It takes me less than 5 minutes to go from start to riding a 8 inch silicon dildo like a bucking bronco!
GITTYUP LITTLE DOGGIE!
The key to learning anal play/sex is to TAKE YOUR TIME.