My wife can't cum
Posted Fri May 10, 2013 02:24 PM
She loves sex but just can't get to the tipping point. Anyone have any advice
Posted Fri May 10, 2013 02:36 PM
Posted Fri May 10, 2013 02:43 PM
could it be that she's just trying to hard and isn't relaxed enough? If she can do it through masturbation on her own when she isn't feeling any pressure, then its def not a mental thing.
Sometimes during sex you can just become over stimulated and no matter what you do, you can't achieve orgasm
Posted Fri May 10, 2013 02:48 PM
Posted Fri May 10, 2013 02:58 PM
yes you totally can.
Sexually i'm not built for sex marathons, I honestly cant stand penetration that goes on for longer than 20 mins as I just lose all feeling. I much prefer foreplay, penetration, foreplay and final penetration.
If I'm with a partner and penetration goes on for longer than i've said, then i just can't cum at all.
Now I orgasm really easily and i'm a two lick wonder when it comes to oral but even with foreplay, if it goes on forever, then I'm done and get past my orgasm limit.
I tend to orgasm within the first 10 mins of penetration and anything after that is just sensation of being fucked but my interest sometimes starts to go a bit. I enjoy penetration after i've cum but sometimes i'm actually ready to just stop and go to sleep (maybe i'm a bloke lol)
I'd rather have sex twice in a night than a marathon session.
so my suggestion for you to try would be getting down and dirty for a while, get her to masturbate for you with her rabbit or you masturbate her. see if she can orgasm without penetration and then build from there.
Of course there are plenty of females that can go for hours but certainly amongst my friends when we talk about it, I'm not in the minority
This post has been edited by Duchess: Fri May 10, 2013 03:00 PM
Posted Fri May 10, 2013 03:08 PM
Posted Fri May 10, 2013 03:31 PM
well maybe not two but honestly I don't last a minute during oral... provided its done properly.
Honestly your wife will be fine, it just takes time and a bit of space and trial and error.
I find the slow grind with me on top gets me to orgasm quickest of all and easiest of all the positions. Doggy doesn't make me orgasm although I love it and missionary it rarely happens unless we have exactly the right grind.
I'm going off for the night, got to collect my partner from the airport then we've got a wedding to go to this weekend but i'll be back on monday and looking for a positive update xx
Posted Mon Jun 17, 2013 01:33 PM