I was on the free chat system of Adult Friend Finder last night, and I saw a local woman on there that looked attractive to me. I wrote her telling her as much, and that I was interested in chatting with her. To my surprise, she wrote me back. She asked me what kind of "relationship" I'm looking for, and I said that I was looking for something fairly casual, but that I was open-minded. She said she was also open-minded about it. She asked me what I was into sexually, and I decided to just be honest and tell her that I've never had sex, but that I was very interested in learning. She seemed surprised I hadn't ever had sex. She asked for a picture of me, so I sent her one. She asked me some other little questions about my physical traits. We exchanged email addresses and phone numbers, and since it was getting kind of late, I told her I'd text her tomorrow (which is today).
I have to work until the evening, so I'll probably text her later tonight. But I'm not really sure what to say to her, and how to progress the situation from here. I don't want to seem too eager and try to push for us to get together too soon, but I assume given the site we met on that she probably doesn't want to waste TOO much time just sending texts back and forth, either. I'd also like to talk to her about whether she's STD-free, though I don't know when the most polite time/ method would be to do so.
And obviously, I think it would be a good idea to meet her in a public place beforehand, but... where? Going out for drinks seems the most appropriate, but I don't really drink, and I'd rather get together with her in the afternoon or early evening, as I don't plan to spend the night. And there's another question... I know I shouldn't assume we're going to have sex immediately after meeting up for the first time, but since this isn't a traditional "date", should I budget in time for sex afterwards when figuring out when she and I can get together and meet up?
This post has been edited by xindiex: Fri Aug 02, 2013 02:10 PM