Bad First Experience
Posted Fri Aug 23, 2013 12:00 PM
I am new to this forum and would like to get some advice. I was a 25 yo virgin up until today and I decided to hire an escort to lose it (I know many people will bash me for this decision). I would like to share the experience will all of you here. She was very well reviewed by her clients and her pics looked very hot, like a model. Upon my arrival, she was very friendly, polite and had a great personalit. She also looked just like her pics, so I was very happy with what i saw. She gave me a hug and a kiss when I entered. I was nervous of course, but not too much. I was able to have a normal conversation with her, like I would with any other person I know well enough.
She asked me to take a quick shower first, so I did. I went back into the room (This was at a hotel, which is her incall location) and she asked me to lie down on the bed. She got on top of me first, we did some french kissing and foreplay, and I got rock hard (At this point I thought I was going to have a great session). As she began to blow me, It went downhill. I thought I was going to last maybe 2 minutes tops since I am a virgin and haven't masturbated in about a week. I got soft after about 10 minutes, which was very humiliating. I asked to do oral on her for a while until i could get hard again. After about 10 minutes or so, I got hard again, she began to blow me once more and I finally came.
After, we talked for a while longer, and I was waiting to get hard again to actually fuck her. I finally got that chance after talking for maybe 15 minutes. She began to blow me once again and I was having a very hard time trying to get an erection. After I finally did, She puts a condom on me, gets on top and begins to ride me, cowgirl style. After about 5 or so minutes, I get soft again. She tries to blow me again and to give me a handjob, but no luck there, i only got semi-erect. My 2 hours were nearly up at this point and I decided to call the session off, as I wasn't gonna get hard again. I don't blame her for this, as she was very polite the entire time, cheerful and full of energy. She did what she could to help me out, but I didn't end up having the session I would have liked to have. I place the blame fully on myself.
I suppose if anyone here wanted to get their cherry popped in a similar method, I would advise against it. Like i said at the beginning, I thought the session was gonna be great, but ended in a disaster. I don't know what to do now. Should i get an escort again? If I was to have sex with a civilian girl, this could very likely happen again...and she most likely wouldn't be very forgiving about it. I can easily get an erection at any other time, so what happen to me today was a major shock to me.
Thanks for reading my long rant. I am clearly not gonna tell my real life friends/family about this, so I wanted to say this anonymously. I would appreciate any constructive advice.
TL;DR: I was a virgin, hired an escort, had a hard time getting it up and it was an unsatisfying session.
Posted Fri Aug 23, 2013 01:36 PM
Sounds like It might have been intimidating for you. maybe try a woman that is not super hot...just a "plain jane" type of woman or call girl. I Viagra might help get over the 1st performance anxiety, if u feel u need some backup.
Posted Fri Aug 23, 2013 02:08 PM
I think it was a stressful situation for you . The first time to be with someone you love is strain enough but you was with a strange girl .
Maybe you wanted to make anything right so you can't let yourself go to enjoy it
Believe me when I say such thing happens and you shouldn't think to much about it
it just happen so what
you will find a girl thats love you and you will have a great time with her
Posted Fri Aug 23, 2013 08:03 PM
I was never one of those men. Consequently, I never had any one-night-stands. All the women (and men) I went to bed with meant something to me, deeply, and in varying ways and to varying degrees, I loved them all. That emotional connection was important to me; otherwise, I would not have performed well.
All the best in your quest. You may find you are one of those men, like me, who need more than a warm and willing female body.
Posted Tue Aug 27, 2013 02:02 AM
Be forgiving to yourself. It's a passing thing, surely.
Posted Tue Aug 27, 2013 02:19 AM
Posted Wed Aug 28, 2013 08:47 PM
So we went to sleep and when we woke up the next morning, we tried again. This time I was in like Flynn, and everything went okay.
Just first time (for me) jitters, and first time (in a while) jitters for her too.