I'm 26 and still a virgin. Please help
Posted Sun Sep 29, 2013 11:22 PM
Posted Mon Sep 30, 2013 09:46 AM
Posted Mon Sep 30, 2013 05:50 PM
If anyone ever needed to read the Book of Pook, it's you. Suffice it to say, women only give men what men act like they want. If you're running around thinking you're gonna BFF your way into some chick's pants, you're gravely mistaken. If you want real advice, PM me...but it won't be what you 'want' to hear...nice guys don't finish first.
Posted Sun Oct 06, 2013 02:08 AM
Exactly what I was going to write. Sure not very nice for your first time, but it will really change you for better and more confident person.
Posted Sun Oct 06, 2013 03:34 AM
Posted Sun Oct 06, 2013 11:26 PM
Posted Mon Oct 07, 2013 12:10 AM
Once you get with a girl you really want to be with then the fireworks will naturally happen. Totally disagree with the hooker suggestion. Your first time should be on your own doing...not with some skank who just finished up her last trick 20 minutes before you showed up.
Posted Mon Oct 07, 2013 06:12 PM
She says that getting a hooker to take your virginity isn't always a good idea. Some of them take a great deal of pride in their jobs, and will make sure that the guy is comfortable and has a memorable and wonderful experience. The rest only care about getting their money and going on their way, and it's not easy to figure out which ones are the ones who actually give a crap, so it's probably for the best that you don't lose it to a prostitute unless you're willing to get one of the really expensive, top dollar escorts, and that's out of most people's price ranges. And even then, it's not a guarantee that they particularly care about customer satisfaction.
As for my own take on it, just put yourself out there and don't sweat it. You're a virgin at 26. So what? We all go at our own pace. The more you worry about it, the less you're likely going to do about it. Go to a bar or something, talk to some girls, try to be friendly and be yourself, and you might just get lucky. Don't be impatient about it. If you rush into losing your virginity, odds are, you won't have too much fun while losing it.
Posted Wed Oct 09, 2013 03:10 PM
In my experience, the best way to get this whole thing going is to not really think about it and have fun. I know it sounds counter productive but trust me. My guess is you're putting a lot of emphasis on getting laid, and rightfully so, but you might be projecting that insecurity and people pick up on it. You could have model looks, with a model physique, but if you seem insecure or desperate people will notice and think something's off.
I would try for months to get a girlfriend, or get laid and nothing. Then as soon as I got a girlfriend, or got pissed because I wasn't get any dates and said "fuck this" and started focusing on everything but dating/sex/relationships all of a sudden girls got interested again. You just can't be so tryhard about it.
If you're a good looking, fun outgoing guy, you're 90% of the way there. Stop giving a fuck about getting laid and just focus on having fun. Keep yourself in that mindset when you're at work, or at a party, or when you're doing whatever. Take every opportunity you have to go and meet people and do it but just go in with the perspective of having fun, rather than an agenda of trying to get laid or get a girlfriend.
Women will pick up on how much of a "fun, good looking, easy going" guy you are, and will want to be with you because of that. And you'll be in a good mood because of it. Don't meet any women that night? Who cares, you were having fun. Got a date but she cancelled on you? Who cares you got 20 other things to do.